How can we make the Qixi Festival meaningful?
One, companionship is the longest declaration of loveNo matter where you are, try your best to be by the side of the person you love, so that they don't have to spend the festival alone. If it's really impossible to reunite, a gift, a greeting, a video call, or a handwritten card would be great comforts. Just stay together normally, without any dramatic events, but perfectly harmonious and peaceful, as life is just simple and real.
Two, surprises abound
The romance of Qixi needs a thoughtful person to plan and create surprises, building atmosphere. The beautiful reunion of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl is admirable, symbolizing the wish for a successful love. The sense of ceremony and the expectation of happiness are especially important for women. Besides the ordinary flowers and chocolates, remember that surprises should be unexpected and unconventional. This requires both parties to have a deep understanding of each other's preferences, and giving what they like is always the best choice. Multiple surprises, with quantity as an advantage, is a good way, going through a series of classic steps like dining, watching a movie, and giving gifts.
Surprises can be mutual, and exchanging gifts can provide topics for emotional communication between the two, enhancing their relationship.
Three, different from daily routine
The way to celebrate Qixi must be different from the usual dullness, and only with a contrast can it be unforgettable.
1. If you rarely cook, try to learn and prepare a meal yourself. On a quiet night, with candlelight glowing, and under the influence of alcohol, you can enjoy the affectionate moments.
2. Choose a place with few people, a quiet environment, and soft lighting to share delicious food. If there is also warm and romantic music in the background, it would be even better.
3. Go on an impromptu trip and explore the beauty of the outside world together.
4. Activities such as roller coasters, glass bridges, jungle flights, and escape rooms are both fun and memorable. At this time, showing your strength will definitely add to your charm.
5. Sit together and enjoy a movie, a concert, or attend a long-awaited concert. These are all excellent choices.
It's not the perfection of the form that matters most. What matters is that the two of you temporarily put aside daily trivialities, focus only on each other, express your feelings, thank each other for their efforts, clarify your true thoughts, and keep the waves of love forever.
Qixi adds more romance to love!
Chinese people's expressions of emotion are always very reserved, so people often face the dilemma of "loving in heart but unable to speak". Saying "I love you" seems simple, but for some people, it's still difficult to say out loud. The arrival of the Qixi Festival gives us the opportunity to loudly express our love and bravely confess. On this day, everyone dares to confess, adding a shy love to the life filled with daily chores and expenses, making love more romantic! Don't forget to loudly express your love on Qixi!
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