In our country's rural areas, there is a traditional saying that a couple's bed should not be lent to others, and this is actually a very common-sense concept. For couples, the marital bed is their private domain, and many families place great importance on the privacy and exclusive use of the bed, so they are unwilling to let others use their own bed. So why can't a couple's bed be used by others? This article will analyze this issue in detail and provide solutions.
Who should not sleep on a couple's bed?
In rural areas, there is a saying: "Better to have someone die than to have a couple sleep together," which especially applies to unmarried couples, and even married couples sleeping at another family's house is no exception. This indicates the importance of paying attention to this issue when couples or lovers stay overnight at someone else's home. Why shouldn't a couple's bed be used by other couples? Because it would be considered taboo, and according to rural beliefs, it is very serious for couples to sleep on someone else's bed, even more so than having a corpse in the house. This involves psychological factors because a couple's bed is an absolutely private place. If other couples use it, it may cause conflicts and discomfort between the couple. In addition, the magnetic field of the bed may change, leading to uncomfortable sleep. Moreover, if others use the bed, it may lead to disharmony between the couple and even cause diseases.
What should you do if a couple's bed has been used by other couples?
① Place a pot of flowers in the bedroom. We all know that flowers bring a sense of joy, so couples often give each other flowers as a way to express love. Similarly, couples should also place some flowers in the bedroom, such as roses, which help enhance the relationship, to promote emotional growth and shift the psychological issues caused by other couples sleeping on the bed, thus strengthening the relationship between the couple.
② Clean the room and remove bad luck. We all know that after our own marriage room has been used by other couples, we feel disgusted and may think we might encounter bad luck. In such cases, some people deal with it by cleaning the room, especially thoroughly cleaning the bedding and mopping the floor, to completely remove the bad luck left behind by the bedding, avoiding bad luck for ourselves.
③ Reduce the stacking of bedding. When your marriage bed must be used by others, try to minimize the stacking of bedding, which makes it easier to clean. At the same time, do not change the magnetic field of your own bedding, trying to maintain the integrity of the couple's bedroom's magnetic field.
④ Buy a desk lamp. According to feng shui, if other couples sleep on your bed, it may affect your relationships with others and bring unnecessary troubles. In such cases, it is best to place a desk lamp in the bedroom. It is said that the desk lamp can improve the couple's relationship with people outside and resolve the troubles caused by others sleeping on the bed, thus reducing the troubles in life.
How to avoid your marriage room being used by others?
Remember to lock the door. The most effective way to avoid embarrassment is to avoid creating opportunities for embarrassment. Therefore, the simplest and most direct way to prevent your marriage room from being used by others is to remember to lock the door every time you go out.
A couple's bed should not be used by others, which is a common-sense concept. The bed is a private area for couples and the most important place in the marriage, a secret base. If it is used by others casually, the bed will lose its privacy and the "Eden effect," thus affecting the couple's relationship and causing unnecessary conflicts. Therefore, to avoid harming the marriage, we should respect the uniqueness of the couple's bed and avoid letting outsiders sleep on the couple's bed.
