In the path of love, we often face many helplessness and things beyond our control. Many people give up their love in front of reality and choose external things instead. Reality is a cruel thing, and we cannot escape it, but we have the right to choose the love we want. Love built on money and material things lacks some purity and sincerity. I hope that everyone's love is pure. Now, let's listen to the "fortune-telling" network of Huayi to talk about how to improve the relationship by setting up feng shui properly.
How Feng Shui Can Change Spousal Relationships
The feelings between couples are like a slow stream, not like the passionate love in the early days. Therefore, every small detail in life gradually influences the direction of the relationship. Can the feng shui formed by the home's decoration layout improve your spousal relationship? Here are some tips for cleverly arranging the layout to avoid poor marital relationships.
In modern home feng shui, doors are very important, especially the combination between the door and the bedroom is crucial. I once had a client whose home feng shui was quite unique. The northwest corner was missing, and they lived in the northeast direction, while the door was located in the south. This couple conformed to traditional Chinese values, with the man taking care of the children at home and the woman working outside. Previously, the man had achieved success in his career, and they were a happy family. However, after moving into the new house, everything started to go downhill, even leading to insomnia. They decided to meet me to analyze the problem. After examining their fate, they were a good match, so there should be no problems. However, there were indeed issues in their marriage.
I concluded that it must be due to feng shui issues. After visiting their new house, I found that the door was facing the south, and the northwest corner was missing. Moreover, both of their bedrooms were located in the northeast. These issues could cause problems. A missing northwest corner is beneficial for the family, but for the man, it's the opposite, as the northwest corner mainly represents him. The missing corner caused the man's career to lose energy, and it also led to the woman taking over the household responsibilities. Their bedrooms being in the northeast caused them to be separated more often, which could lead to financial loss. Considering all these factors together, this house significantly harmed the man's career and finances and caused them to be separated more often. After explaining these issues to the couple, they realized where the problem was. However, identifying the problem is one thing, solving it is another. Even if you find the issue, you may not know how to solve it. So they asked me how to resolve these issues. I explained the solutions in detail and also discussed other feng shui issues in the house. In feng shui, nothing is trivial; it can determine the fortune or misfortune of family members, even their lives. Therefore, do not ignore any feng shui issues.
The separation of couples does not necessarily have to be due to work; it can also result from the long-term fading of love and the absence of children, leaving no attachments. This can easily lead to separation. If other unfavorable events occur during this time, the relationship can deteriorate. A deterioration in the relationship can lead to living apart, or even separation. I have encountered this situation many times, and it often occurs in homes where the door faces the south and the bedroom is located in the northwest. This layout commonly leads to infertility. As the saying goes, "No descendants is the greatest sin," and for parents, the lack of children is very painful, even if they don't say it out loud. For a couple, children are the fruit of love. A love without children is incomplete, and an incomplete love is hard to last, especially for those who are away from home. Without children, there are no ties, and such love is vulnerable to temptation.
However, for some people with fiery tempers, such as those with excessive fire elements in their destiny, they cannot tolerate others' nagging. Too much nagging only causes them to react, resulting in two scenarios: either violent solutions or avoidance. Violent solutions are not worth discussing, but avoidance can be worse because it might lead to living apart. Especially for people with fiery tempers, retaliatory actions are normal. For the individuals involved, they may see it as a way to relieve stress, and short-term problems are not too bad. However, if it continues for a long time, it could lead to the breakdown of the family.
This situation mostly occurs when the door faces the west and the bedroom is located in the south. The south belongs to the fire element, which intensifies the fire attribute of the person, making the situation worse. In such feng shui arrangements, the home is usually chaotic, and for someone with excessive fire elements, this is a torment. Thus, they are more likely to escape outside, leading to more frequent separations.
Rules for Successful Love
With the arrival of the new year, there are many things to strive for, but one thing is difficult to achieve through effort alone: the love issues of the Year of the Sheep. Most people focus on how to enhance their romantic luck. There are secrets to successful love. Want to know the secrets? Follow the editor to take a look!
Feng Shui Magic 1: This small magic can make the relationship successful.
Write the name of the person you like on a pink sticky note, tell the name how much you miss him, then at midnight, burn the sticky note with fire and put the ashes into a small bottle, then bury it in the soil. Soon, the relationship will become successful.
Feng Shui Magic 2: This small magic can make the other person fall in love with you.
At dusk, go to the park, draw a small circle on the ground, then loudly say, "XXX likes me, I like XXX." After saying that, stomp six times on the small circle, then use a bottle to collect the soil in the circle, and carry the bottle with you every day.
Feng Shui Magic 3: This small magic can make the other person do what you want.
Write your name and the name of the person you like on a red maple leaf. At midnight, take the maple leaf, face the moon, and recite the person's name three times. This wish will come true.
Feng Shui Magic 4: This small magic can make a one-sided love successful.
Before sunset, silently recite the name of the person you like ten times in your heart, then shout loudly, "I like you!" Do this continuously for three days, and the relationship will become successful within three months.
Feng Shui Magic 5: When you encounter your beloved in a public place and want to talk to them but feel nervous and lack courage, use this small magic.
Just stare at the person, place your thumb on your index finger, silently recite the spell "Yot, Be, Wu, Be" seven times, then smile at the person. The power of the spell will spread. At this moment, approach and speak to the person calmly and naturally, and you won't hit a wall.
Feng Shui Magic 6: This small magic is used to let the other person sense your love.
When no one is around in the classroom, place your hands on his desk, take deep breaths, and close your eyes while thinking of his smile. Soon, he will sense your feelings.
Feng Shui Magic 7: This small magic can make a one-sided love successful.
On the night of the third day of the month, wrap yourself in the curtain of your room and recite the spell "Namu Hura Sa" and the name of the person you're infatuated with, then jump left and right once. By the third day of the following month, the one-sided love will turn into mutual affection.
Feng Shui Magic 8: Stick an OK band on your left finger, and if it doesn't fall off for a week, your wish will come true.
However, you must not stick it on the wrong finger, as each finger has different magical powers. The thumb represents seeing the person you like, the index finger represents a breakup (if stuck incorrectly, it's a disaster), the middle finger represents mutual affection, the ring finger represents a rival (this needs to be handled carefully), and the little finger means the person you like will call you.
Feng Shui Magic 9: This small magic helps you get a chance to talk to him.
When applying lip balm, you can perform a small magic on your lower lip. Start from the corner of your mouth, draw a horizontal line, then a vertical line, and apply lip balm while drawing cross lines. After doing this, you will have the opportunity to talk to him.
Feng Shui Magic 10: This small magic makes you appear beautiful in front of the other person.
At 12:12:12 AM, throw three one-yuan coins at the mirror. The part of your reflection that is hit by the coins will become beautiful! Remember, the time to throw the three coins must not differ by more than 30 seconds, and it's best to throw them within 30 seconds. Before throwing, silently recite in your heart: "I will become beautiful, I will become beautiful..."
Rules for Protecting Love
Another new year has arrived, and are single people still worrying about love? Cultivating love starts with small details, so I have compiled several simple feng shui rules related to love, hoping that everyone can find their other half soon. Married people should also review the interior of their home to avoid arrangements that harm love. Let's take a look at the twelve feng shui rules for protecting love!
1. Replace lonely objects in your home with pairs, such as a pair of love birds flying side by side, a pair of romantic lamps, or two heart-shaped decorations, which can bring you love.
2. In feng shui, pink is the color of love, so pink items can help you retain love energy. Replace your daily items with pink ones, such as bags, nail polish cases, etc., and they will be useful.
3. In the field of love, round things can definitely bring you love energy. When choosing items, pay attention to their shape and avoid sharp-edged ones. For example, when wearing a watch, choose a round one.
4. For women, the mirror in the dressing area should not face the door, as it can startle you when entering the bedroom. The dressing mirror should not reflect the bed head, otherwise, it may lead to nightmares or poor mental state.
5. Time flies, you must draw a clear line with the past. So, be decisive, throw away old love letters, gifts from lovers, and anything related to past relationships, to welcome new love. Don't grieve over the past anymore.
6. Sharp and multi-angled plants are not suitable for singles, such as cacti.
7. For singles, flowers should be placed to the right for men and to the left for women. If it's a man, place a bouquet of flowers on the right side of the living room (facing the sofa). Do not use plastic flowers, and the flowers should have large petals. The vase should be a porcelain or ceramic one. Make sure the flowers don't wither, or it may bring disasters and illnesses before love arrives.
8. Black is solemn and dignified, but it is harmful to love. Singles should avoid this color.
9. Flowers should not be placed near the bed head, as it can damage the couple's relationship. Over time, one party may have an affair.
10. Modern buildings sometimes have large windows or floor-to-ceiling windows in the bedroom. According to ancient feng shui books, sleeping too close to the window can lead to "red apricot blossoms peeping out," implying infidelity. It can also lead to many dreams and affect sleep, so the bed should not be too close to the window.
11. The bed head should not have a large mirror, and indoor plants should be large-leafed, broad-leaved plants, not small-leafed or small-flowered plants, as they represent trivial matters affecting the relationship.
12. Pink crystal has the most miraculous effects on love. You can place a pink crystal seven-star array at home or make a bag filled with pink crystal fragments as a love luck charm. Put this bag in your handbag or next to the bed, which is effective for love.
