Can you get married on the Double Ninth Festival?
It is allowed to get married on the Double Ninth Festival. There is no belief that it is taboo to get married on this day.According to ancient people, the Double Ninth Festival is a very auspicious day when "nine returns to the true" and "the beginning of the first yuan," so it is suitable to do happy events like marriage.
Which days are not suitable for getting married
1. First lunar month
Marriage in the first lunar month is considered to be under the influence of the year's god of calamity, known in folk as "red head," which is not suitable for marriage, and it is also not beneficial for the future children.
2. Sixth lunar month
It is not suitable to get married in the sixth lunar month, because a bride who gets married in this month is called "half-month wife" in traditional beliefs, meaning she has a beginning but no end, and cannot support each other until the end.
3. Ghost Festival
The third, seventh, and ninth lunar months are considered "ghost festivals" because they coincide with "Clear Brightness," "Yulan," and "Chonggong," which are all traditional "Ghost Festivals," so it is not suitable to hold wedding celebrations during these months.
4. The Three Maid's Curse
The Three Maid's Curse is against marriage and opposes the God of Marriage, specifically disrupting newlyweds, so it is not suitable to get married on this day. The Three Maid's Curse occurs on the 3rd, 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd, and 27th of each lunar month.
What are the things to note on the Double Ninth Festival
First, do not give chrysanthemums to the elderlyThe Double Ninth Festival has the custom of appreciating chrysanthemums, but chrysanthemums should not be given as gifts to others, as it is disrespectful and unlucky.
Because chrysanthemums have been traditionally used as flowers for funerals in China, representing mourning for the deceased. Moreover, the Double Ninth Festival is also a festival of worship, so giving someone a bouquet of chrysanthemums on this day would be like cursing them and causing them unhappiness.
Second, avoid eating too much Chongyang cake
The Double Ninth Festival has the custom of eating Chongyang cake, and many families prepare some for children and the elderly to eat on this day.
However, Chongyang cake should not be eaten in excess, especially for the elderly, those with stomach problems, diabetes, or high blood pressure. Because Chongyang cake is high in carbohydrates and fat, and low in protein. Eating it on an empty stomach can lead to excessive gastric acid secretion, causing heartburn and even a burning sensation. Additionally, to make the cake sweet and delicious, a lot of sugar and lard are usually added, and the commonly used ingredient, glutinous rice, is difficult to digest.
Third, be cautious when climbing mountains for relaxation
The Double Ninth Festival has the custom of climbing mountains and appreciating chrysanthemums, so many people choose to go hiking on this day to cultivate their mind and body.
However, hiking also carries risks. Even in places that seem to have comprehensive safety measures, one must be careful, especially ensuring the safety of children and the elderly. It is already deep autumn on the Double Ninth Festival, and the weather becomes very cool, with significant temperature differences in mountainous and wilderness areas, so it is essential to take warm clothing with you. Never be careless, and never dress lightly due to the heat of the day and the sweat from hiking, which could lead to catching a cold.
