Do you have many friends? Are your interpersonal relationships smooth? If you want to know the answer, follow Wang Yi's editor to take the test!
1. Your close friend is having a birthday, what gift will you give her?
A. Give her something you like yourself → 1 point
B. Think carefully about whether she would like it, and then decide what to give → 5 points
C. Give her something practical and cost-effective for daily use → 2 points
2. A person who is not very familiar with you asks to borrow an amount equivalent to your monthly salary (or monthly allowance). What will you do?
A. You think it doesn't matter even if he doesn't return it, so you lend it to him generously → 1 point
B. Lend it to him, but often remind him to pay it back afterwards → 3 points
C. Politely decline, not wanting to lend it to her → 5 points
3. It's already the end of the month and you're broke. At this time, your friend invites you out. What will you do?
A. "There's always a way when you reach the mountain," you go out first and worry about it later → 5 points
B. Refuse immediately with "I don't have money" → 2 points
C. See if you can borrow some money before deciding whether to go → 1 point
4. Your friend suddenly visits, but your house is in a mess. What will you do?
A. Say "It's too messy, sorry," and let your friend in → 2 points
B. Ask your friend to wait at a nearby tea house while you tidy up, then invite him in → 5 points
C. Immediately take your friend out to play, not staying at home → 4 points
5. Someone invites you to join a public welfare activity. What will you do?
A. Be very willing → 1 point
B. Make an excuse to avoid it → 2 points
C. Although you are not interested, you still reluctantly agree → 5 points
6. When sending New Year cards, whom do you send them to?
A. Only send to people I'm very familiar with; if someone I'm not very familiar with sends me one, I'll return it → 4 points
B. Send to anyone I know, regardless of familiarity → 5 points
C. Never send any → 1 point
7. What do you think when someone stands you up?
A. If the reason is sufficient, you can understand and accept it → 5 points
B. No matter what the reason, suddenly canceling the meeting is wrong, and you can't forgive it → 2 points
C. Also stand him up in the future → 4 points
8. Someone walking ahead of you suddenly falls down in pain. What will you do?
A.热心地上前询问：“没事吧？” → 4 points
B. Curiously watch what she is doing → 2 points
C. Keep walking as usual, ignoring her → 1 point
9. If your family opposes your relationship with your lover, what will you do?
A. No matter who opposes, you will stick to your love → 1 point
B. Act secretly with him/her, without hurting either side → 5 points
C. Think carefully about everyone's opinions → 4 points
10. When you face difficulties, whom will you ask for help?
A. A few sincere friends → 2 points
B. Doesn't matter, just find whoever can help → 5 points
Test Results:
Total score ≤ 12 points: Type A
12 ≤ Total score ≤ 22 points: Type B
22 ≤ Total score ≤ 34 points: Type C
Total score ≥ 35 points: Type D
A
You are a person not bound by social conventions.
You always think in a calm and rational way, so you are not moved by cheap, tear-jerking plots in TV dramas. Perhaps from a certain perspective, not easily showing emotions is a virtue, but sometimes it also shows that you lack imagination. For example, people who have never been in love may not understand the pain of heartbreak. This means that your lack of social understanding might be due to insufficient experience. Try to find opportunities to practice in daily life.
B
You are not ignorant of social conventions, but you are too honest and easy to get hurt.
Are you finding it difficult to say some polite or flattering words? Additionally, you are very upright and unwilling to lie to accommodate others. So, when someone wears a new outfit or has a nice hairstyle and expects praise, you might blurt out, "This doesn't suit you." In this way, it becomes hard for you to get along with others. However, you are not without friends; they are just few, and they appreciate your honesty. Regardless, you should especially cherish the friends around you.
C
You value social conventions very much and are good at handling such situations, but sometimes you also get entangled in social matters.
You have to smile at someone you originally dislike, and sometimes you feel disgusted with yourself. This kind of mentality shouldn't be taken too seriously, otherwise, you will only cause yourself more pain. You value social conventions because your inner self is lonely and afraid that people will distance themselves, so you pretend to be warm. Learn to be stronger, and you will find that you have more confidence in your ability to handle interpersonal issues!
D
You are very familiar with the rules of social conventions, so you have a lot of friends.
Your traits are very common; when others cry, you cry, and when others laugh, you laugh. Your expressions change constantly. You are also very serious, and you don't consider this as acting, but rather a reflex, unconsciously feeling others' emotions. A reminder is needed: sometimes, this is just your own assumption, an emotion you impose on the other party, which might be a burden in their eyes. Because you care too much about others' feelings, you often let others' opinions influence your decisions.
