Are you a person who is clear about love and hate? Are you someone who turns love into hatred? If you want to find the answer, follow the editor of Huayi to take the test!
1. Do you think love can transcend the differences in identity and background?
yes—3 no—2
2. Is "respecting each other like guests" your ideal of love?
yes—3 no—4
3. After breaking up, can you still be friends?
It's hard—5 Yes—4
4. If the person you love proposes to break up, will you try to stop it?
No—5 Yes—6
6. Is the person who falls in love first always more likely to make more efforts?
No—7 Yes—8
7. Do you believe that love can last long?
No—9 Yes—8
8. Can you regard a liking as love?
No—10 Yes—9
9. Are you a person with lasting feelings?
No—10 Yes—11
10. Do you always get emotional over fictional stories?
No—11 Yes—12
11. Have you ever made changes for love?
No—13 Yes—12
12. In your opinion, what happens when love occurs at the wrong time and place?
It is destined to have no future—15 It may have different outcomes—13
13. Is marriage an economic act?
No—D Yes—14
14. Can you forgive your lover's infidelity?
Cannot—B Depends on the situation—15
15. When you are immersed in love, you will?
Be full of fear about possible misfortune—C Look forward to the future together—A
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Test Results:
A. Love Full of Expectation
Love Turns to Hatred Index: ★★★★★
Your love is one of expectation, brave and obsessed, though you never say it out loud, but deep in your heart, you long for the same amount of passion and effort from the other person. However, people often see facts that shrink the actual efforts of the other person. As a result, you increase your efforts to maintain your love, but this is filled with委屈 and resentment, even becoming obsessive, which makes the other person feel like you are constantly taking.
When true love meets betrayal and abandonment, you find it difficult to let go. If you can't save it, you may turn love into hatred and seek revenge. Your efforts have almost emptied your energy, and you can't bear the feeling of being completely empty anymore.
B. Rational Love
Love Turns to Hatred Index: ★★★☆
You love rationally and calculate clearly. You understand human nature well, and naturally clever, able to conquer a city in a moment, but always remain cautious, not allowing yourself to fall completely. Indeed, love makes people blind, but certainly no one is foolish. Whether it's genuine emotion or pretense, how could you not be aware? You limit your investment in love, possibly missing true love without realizing it.
When losing love, instead of reflecting on your lack of seriousness, you blame the other person for not seeing their value. It's more accurate to say you are angry and resentful than sad and upset.
C. Painful Love
Love Turns to Hatred Index: ★★
Your love seems to be a torment to yourself; the happier you are, the more afraid you become; the more painful, the more satisfied. At the beginning of love, you have already considered all possible endings, but you missed the happy ones. You have prepared yourself for loss, so you always leave room for yourself in expectations, as if this would prevent you from feeling desperate.
However, when you really lose love, you still hold grudges. You have grievances but no hatred, just confusion in your mind. How could he let go? What level of pain does he expect from you? At the same time, you also unconsciously defend the other person, falling into a contradictory state of love and hatred.
D. Simple Love
Love Turns to Hatred Index: ★
You love simply and stubbornly, sincerely giving and carefully nurturing, without too many calculations of success or failure, but you don't lose yourself in love either. You have the dual characteristics of pride and shyness, and sometimes appear too passive, letting love slip away without trying to stop it. Fortunately, your naive and innocent nature helps you heal quickly.
After losing a carefully nurtured love, you might speak harshly, but you won't truly hate or harm the other person. Because your nature is still kind, and after all, life should be about seeking happiness. Why let the shadow of hatred trouble yourself?