If two people get married and their relationship encounters problems after marriage, leading to divorce, it's no longer just a matter between the two of them. It involves two families. Therefore, choosing the right partner is a very important decision. So, what kind of person is suitable for a person with a Metal element (Jin Ming) to marry?

Do Metal Element Couples Clash Hard?

When two people both have a Metal element, they tend to clash hard. They are more likely to have a daughter, which may not be conducive to continuing the family line. Moreover, the couple often spends little time together. Even when they are together, they might experience cold wars or quarrels. Both have their own intentions, and although they live under the same roof, they do not share the same dreams. They cannot work together to bring more wealth to the family, and the family's fate tends to be unstable. In the end, they may spend their lives alone without the care of children.

What Kind of Person Is Suitable for a Metal Element Person to Marry?

People with a Metal element are usually perceived as having broad foreheads, being wise, and possessing a general's demeanor. People with a Metal element have a high degree of dominance. As stated in the "Book of Documents": "Metal is associated with revolution," where "revolution" means reform. These people can reform and have strong control. People with a Metal element are decisive, firm, resolute, authoritative, focused, and have strong goal orientation. They are upright, generous, and have good relationships. They are steady, visionary, energetic, and have organizational skills; they have strong independence and unwillingness to compromise; they pursue their goals urgently and are accustomed to a stable territory. However, their shortcomings include impatience, difficulty in integration; rigid thinking, stubbornness, lack of flexibility; being nitpicky, fond of comparison, sharp and critical, and being self-centered. Because people with a Metal element have a high degree of dominance and are too strong-willed, their partners must be in a subordinate position. Therefore, regardless of gender, it is best to choose someone with a Water or Earth element. Otherwise, due to their own characteristics, the other party may find it psychologically difficult to bear, leading to marital failure. Such people are often fully devoted to their career pursuits, and those in a subordinate position, including their spouses and family members, need to wholeheartedly support their career aspirations and possess a spirit of sacrifice. Such people often have tense relationships with their children, who tend to be rebellious. It is crucial to respect the career and life pursuits of family members, otherwise, it may lead to betrayal and isolation.