Generally, the ear is divided into three parts for observation, namely the upper lobe, middle lobe, and lower lobe (known as the heavenly wheel, human wheel, and earthly wheel in classical physiognomy). These three parts have interesting symbolic meanings in physiognomy:
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Upper lobe: Represents the spiritual and intellectual aspects. Therefore, girls with a well-developed upper lobe tend to be highly sensitive and have high IQs.
Middle lobe: Represents action and initiative. Girls with a well-developed middle lobe are energetic, positive in attitude, and decisive in their actions.
Lower lobe: Represents material desires. Therefore, girls with a well-developed lower lobe place great emphasis on material enjoyment and prefer an easy life, making them more realistic and practical.
1. Girls with fleshy ears: They tend to be more fortunate; in classical physiognomy, this is said to indicate a lot of blessings and many benefactors.
2. Girls with ears that are close to the head: Their personalities are more reserved. They have strong learning and comprehension abilities, are gentle and approachable, and understand the big picture. They rarely exhibit unusual or strange behavior.
3. Girls with soft and beautiful ear contours: The ear bones are clear, and the flesh is evenly wrapped, with no outwardly flipped ear bones. Such girls are considered ideal spouses.
4. Girls with soft ears: They are emotionally rich and sincere, but if their ears are slightly hard, they have a strong personality. When they "flip," they can be cold and unfeeling.
5. Girls with ears higher than their eyebrows: They pay attention to abstract consciousness and spiritual feelings. They have a good mind and high ability, but tend to be proud and isolated. If you are not well-educated or talented, trying to impress her with wealth would be a big mistake!
6. Girls with ears that are too low: They are more realistic and calculating, and value material life. If you are a poor gentleman without a promising financial future, you won't be her idol!
7. Girls with thick flesh and unclear ear bones: They may lose their principles due to being overly emotional. "Emotion clouding wisdom" is their weakness.
8. Girls with outwardly flipped ear bones: They are overly self-centered, bold, and prone to acting independently, with a strong desire for performance.
9. Girls whose middle lobe bone is flipped and appear larger than the upper lobe: They have a strong personality, are brave, rebellious, and don't care about others' looks. If you are a well-behaved man with traditional virtues, she could be your ideal partner.
10. Girls with sharp upper lobes instead of round ones, with pointed and bony ears: They are extremely sensitive, have a tendency to be suspicious, and sometimes act too extreme. They often suffer from anxiety and see things in a negative light, especially when it comes to relationships.
Prescription One: If you believe that cosmetic surgery can change your fate, then you are falling into the "fate-changing" illusion. I have always been skeptical, even disbelieving, about all kinds of fate-changing claims, based on professional expertise and long-term experience. Those who specialize in Four Pillars or Eight Characters, or fortune-telling experts cannot be misled by false appearances and make wrong judgments about destiny.
Prescription Two: That is why we avoid using artificially altered features and instead analyze personality through naturally formed ear shapes. This is because we do not believe in false appearances. Cosmetic surgery has covered up the truth, making facial features difficult to distinguish between real and fake. Therefore, we must focus on places that reveal the truth. Of course, Four Pillars fortune-telling is also a method that starts from the truth!





