The Ox man and the Sheep woman are not a compatible pair. You lack imagination, are not considerate, and cannot tolerate her strange ideas, so life tends to be monotonous and lacks joy.
From the perspective of the zodiac, the Ox man and the Sheep woman are in conflict. If their heavenly stems also clash, then they are even less compatible. Because the clash of heavenly stems and the conflict of earth branches is more severe than just the conflict. The Sheep woman's earthly branch is Wei, while the Ox man's earthly branch is Chou, which is a conflict between Chou and Wei. Even if the two of you are determined to be together, you will not suit each other, constantly facing difficulties and arguments, making your relationship unpleasant.
The combination of an Ox man and a Sheep woman is not ideal. She is relatively cold-hearted toward emotions and focuses more on her career, striving for a high-quality life; while you are introverted, thoughtful, and have a beautiful vision for love, but you think too much and seek stable love. You may feel that she doesn't care enough for you, nor is she tender and considerate; while she might think you are too weak and lack masculinity. Both of you may feel disappointed. To get along well, both sides need to make sacrifices and give more to each other.

Those born in the Year of the Sheep are gentle, kind, and family-oriented, giving them a certain charm that makes people want to approach them. In fact, under certain circumstances, people born in the Year of the Sheep can use violence, and they are not as gentle as they appear. For example, if you tell them something multiple times and they still don't change, they might solve it with physical force.
Therefore, the secret of the Sheep is using violence. However, under normal circumstances, people born in the Year of the Sheep do not easily get angry, as they are generally gentle. They only get angry or use violence when they reach their limit, or when they feel helpless after enduring it for a long time, leading them to resort to violence.