Your love life is relatively smooth, and both of you will spend a happy life in a peaceful and harmonious marriage.
Your union satisfies both of you, and neither of you has much to complain about.
The male ox is strong and steady, although he is not very talkative, he is very reliable. He is willing to be respected by a kind wife and always consciously meets all the material needs of the family. The female rat is devoted and affectionate towards the male ox, arranging everything in the home in the way the male ox likes, and deeply satisfied with the stable and comfortable life provided by the male ox.
So, it is suitable for a female rat and a male ox to be together.

Strengths: They act carefully and steadily, and do not easily change due to others or the environment. They follow their own thoughts and abilities. Before taking action, they have already thought thoroughly and have perseverance with strong beliefs and physical strength. They have a bull-like temper, distinguish right from wrong, proceed step by step, have a strong sense of career, and are the most patient. They have a strong desire for self-expression, so they are not suitable for unremarkable work. They are natural excellent leaders. Female oxen manage the household well and are traditional good wives, paying great attention to children's education. Although they are not very harmonious in marriage, they can devote a lot of energy to their careers and become successful entrepreneurs. They are patient and strive for progress, so they can achieve their set goals. Being kind and honest is their lifelong nature. They have a strong love for the country, ideals, and ambitions, value work and family, and are conservative traditionalists.
Weaknesses: Because of their honesty, they believe in others very much. They think that others will definitely not deceive them, especially female oxen who usually stubbornly believe in what men say, only to find out their true nature after marriage. Male oxen are also very soft-hearted, and when their partner pouts, they are at a loss, leading to them having to endure silently. They don't trust others easily and are stubborn. They are silent and talk little. They like to do things their own way, are stubborn, and are not good at communication.