Excessive Qisha in a Woman's Ba Zi
In Ba Zi fortune-telling, if there is an excessive "Qisha" phenomenon in the heavenly stems and earthly branches, it indicates that this woman may be prone to infidelity after marriage and lack faithfulness. When facing difficulties in married life or failing to achieve desired material conditions, she may turn to wealthy and powerful men, disregarding her husband's feelings. Once her husband discovers the signs, it could lead to the breakdown of the marriage and inevitably result in divorce.If a woman's Ba Zi has an overly strong or excessive "Qisha," it means she has many romantic opportunities, but it doesn't necessarily mean she will meet a good man. Often, she cannot distinguish whether the other person is genuinely treating her or just taking advantage of her in some way. As she gradually falls into the other person's charm, she may lose herself. Even if the other person asks her to do things she doesn't want to do, she might still comply. Being blinded by love, she is very likely to lose her own judgment.
Women with excessive "Qisha" in their Ba Zi often experience divorce. If they remarry, and if they don't carefully nurture their relationship, allowing the emotional connection to fade or even break down, they may face the interference of a third party. If the husband has a mistress, it could lead to various conflicts with the rival. Not only will the marital life become chaotic, but they may also struggle to focus on their current work, leading to exhaustion both mentally and physically.
However, having excessive "Qisha" should not cause too much anxiety. It also indicates that this woman has good relationships with others. If she can make good use of her good relations with the opposite sex, develop her network flexibly, and maintain proper boundaries with the opposite sex, she can expand her social circle. This can help her gain certain resources for career development. For women working in resource management, as well as those in hosting or entertainment fields, they often need to communicate with people. A flexible mind and elegant charm can continuously add to their image.
Determining the Quality of Marriage through a Woman's Ba Zi:
The Ba Zi refers to a person's birth time, represented by the Eight Characters using the Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches. You can check the almanac to find them. In the Ba Zi, the heavenly stem of the day of birth represents the "self." Each stem and branch has its own five elements. The element that controls or restricts the "self" is called the "Guan" (Official), and for a woman, the "Guan" symbolizes her husband. In the Ba Zi, having one "Guan" is auspicious, while having too many or none is unfavorable for marriage. Too many "Guan" indicates that a woman has good luck with men, is easily involved in love affairs, but may face relationship conflicts, which is not favorable for marriage. Having no "Guan" indicates that the woman has poor luck with men or a weak romantic relationship, making it difficult to find a partner, or possibly finding someone significantly older, resulting in unstable marriage and potential interference from a third party. Additionally, it's important to check whether the "Guan" in the Ba Zi is favorable for the woman. If the "Guan" is favorable, it means the husband treats her well and offers support, leading to a harmonious relationship. If the "Guan" is unfavorable, it may bring misunderstandings, make the woman vulnerable to being dragged down by her husband, or long-term pressure from him.In a woman's Ba Zi, the earthly branch of the day of birth represents the marriage palace, i.e., the home of the spouse. The quality of the marriage can be determined by checking whether the marriage palace is affected by other branches through conflict, injury, or union. If there are no such effects, it is considered auspicious, and it is not advisable to marry too early. Additionally, the heavenly stem of the day pillar represents the individual, while the earthly branch represents the spouse. Their relationship can be judged based on the mutual generation and control of the five elements. If the elements generate each other, it indicates a good relationship between the couple. For example, if the heavenly stem is Wood and the earthly branch is Water, Water generates Wood, indicating that the spouse treats her well and gives more in the relationship. If the elements control each other, it suggests differences in personality and ideas, leading to arguments and conflicts, which can harm the relationship over time. If the elements are equal, it indicates similar personalities and shared interests, but if they disagree, both may be stubborn, which can eventually negatively affect the marriage.
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