Marriage for both men and women is the same; first, look at the main pillar. The month's command is the marital palace, and the day's branch is the partner. Then carefully examine the wealth and official stars.

Imbalances, conflicts, and eliminations lead to unstable marriages; if the month is empty, the emotions are not sincere. If the month has harmful stars, there are frequent quarrels; if the month's command has competing brothers/sisters, it causes chaos.

If the month's command meets with harmony, the marriage is beautiful; if wealth, official stars, and wisdom stars are strong, the emotional bond is solid. If the day's branch meets with harmony, there may be infidelity; if the branch is an official or killer star, it brings strict constraints.

If the day's stem sits on the proper wealth, the wife is supportive; the wife manages the household well. If the proper wealth sits on the general star, she can be a virtuous woman from a noble family.

If the day's stem sits on the proper wisdom, the wife is kind; in old age, one must rely on Buddhism. If the day's stem is strong and the secondary wealth is strong, there are many wives and concubines.

If the husband's wife star is contested or linked, he may marry a second time or get involved in a triangle. If the wife's husband star is contested or linked, she may marry a second time or get involved in a triangle.

If the husband's wealth star is contested or linked on the day, he may have an extramarital relationship or raise another man's child. If the wife's official star is contested or linked on the day, she may have an extramarital affair.

If the day shows a proper star, the partner is good; if there is a sinister or harmful star, the partner is bad. If the day's branch and the hour have a mutual conflict, there will be continuous emotional turmoil.

If there are many water elements like Bing Wu and Ding Wei, they may not be able to sleep together. If the three palaces meet on the day, the marriage is happy; if the day's branch is in conflict or disruption, the marriage won't last long.

If the day's stem enters the wife's tomb, the man fears his wife; if the body is weak and there are many wealth elements, he fears the new bride. If the wife follows the husband's transformation, the husband gains a virtuous wife; if the wife transforms the husband, she supports him.

If the wife's official star is strong and enters the day's stem, the couple has deep feelings. If the wife goes away, there may be an affair, but she won't talk about it openly.

If the wealth star is floating, the emotion is not exclusive; it can only be kept in the heart. If you want to know the appearance, it should be analyzed based on the day's branch.

If the day's branch is in the middle of the branches like Yin, Shen, Si, Hai, the appearance is tall and handsome; if it is in the middle of the branches like Zi, Wu, Mao, You, the appearance is good-looking; if it is in the branches like Chen, Xu, Chou, Wei, the appearance is average.

If the man's wealth direction is in a favorable position, he may marry early; if the talent star is controlled, he may marry an adopted daughter as a wife.

Auspicious Days for Ba Zi Compatibility:

One, Auspicious Years
If you want to choose a wedding during a good year, then a double spring year is an excellent choice. A double spring year refers to a year with two "Start of Spring" moments, one at the beginning and one at the end of the year. Spring represents the renewal of nature and the rebirth of all things, and it symbolizes the beginning of the year and the spreading of branches and leaves. Therefore, throughout history, this season has been especially suitable for marriage and weddings.
Another good year is a leap year, which means that the lunar calendar has thirteen months. "Rush" represents nourishment or harvest, symbolizing that the emotional relationship between the two people can be harmonious. Therefore, it generally represents that the love between the couple is nourished, making them more loving, harmonious, and fulfilling. Of course, if a year has both "Double Spring" and "Leap Month," it is even better, bringing double happiness.
Two, Choosing Auspicious Days Based on Ba Zi Compatibility
By accurately calculating the most auspicious day for a wedding using the Ba Zi of both the man and the woman, it is best to choose a day when a benefactor appears, as the presence of a benefactor acts as a great mediator and plays a significant role. In terms of the Five Elements, the chosen day should be suitable for a wedding and should not clash with the man's wealth star or the woman's official star. However, if there are many wealth stars and official stars in the Ba Zi, this rule may be an exception.
The selected auspicious day should also not clash with the birth dates of both parents, at least not with the use elements of both parents' Ba Zi, nor with their food and injury stars, otherwise it could negatively affect the marital relationship. Therefore, the general principle is: the day is more important than the month, and the month is more important than the year. Even in an inauspicious year, there can still be auspicious days.