Marriage is a major life event that everyone must face and experience. Some people fall in love at first sight, feel regret for meeting too late, support each other, and grow old together, while others may go through the journey of "Spirited Away," live in tension, work hard to maintain the relationship, and eventually part ways. What are the analysis and solutions for incompatible birth charts in marriage? The saying goes, "Better to dismantle a temple than to break up a marriage." It's the same with compatibility in marriage. Click on the "Eight Characters Compatibility" to learn more!

Analysis of Incompatible Birth Charts for Marriage:

1. People with Conflicting Marriage Palaces Should Not Marry
In the eight-character chart, the earthly branch of your birth day (the day branch) represents the marriage palace, which symbolizes your spouse's residence and the spouse themselves. If the person you marry has an incompatible marriage palace in their own chart, meaning that their month branch or hour branch conflicts with your day branch, it often leads to divorce, and the couple may not grow old together, making it unsuitable to marry them. However, it also depends on specific combinations, as some cases with such conflicts may not necessarily result in divorce. Additionally, if your day branch conflicts with the day branch of the other person's chart, it is also not suitable for marriage. If both parties' marriage palaces clash, it can lead to changes in the marriage, so it should be avoided. The conflicting earthly branches are: Rat and Horse, Ox and Sheep, Tiger and Monkey, Rabbit and Rooster, Dragon and Dog, Snake and Pig.
2. Avoid Marrying People with Opposing Zodiac Signs
While conflict in the yarrow stick theory isn't always bad, it implies conflict. This kind of conflict can easily lead to increased disputes between couples and even breakups. Therefore, when choosing a partner, it's better to avoid such conflicts. The conflicting zodiac signs are: Rat and Horse, Ox and Sheep, Tiger and Monkey, Rabbit and Rooster, Dragon and Dog, Snake and Pig.
3. Do Not Choose Years That Conflict with Your Zodiac Sign for Marriage
If the year of marriage conflicts with your zodiac sign, it means you're suffering from the Year of the Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches, which is considered unlucky. You should try to avoid misfortune instead of holding a wedding, to prevent joy turning into sorrow. For example, in 2010, which was the Year of the Tiger, those born in the Year of the Monkey were not suitable for marriage; in 2011, the Year of the Rabbit, those born in the Year of the Rooster were not suitable for marriage; in 2012, the Year of the Dragon, those born in the Year of the Dog were not suitable for marriage...
4. Do Not Choose Days That Conflict with the Marriage Palace
If the earthly branch of the wedding day conflicts with your day branch in the eight-character chart, it is called "day conflicting with the marriage palace," which is very dangerous. For instance, if your day branch is "Wu" (Snake), and your boyfriend's day branch is "Si" (Horse), you shouldn't choose days with the earthly branches "Zi" (Rat) or "Hai" (Boar) for the wedding.
5. Do Not Choose Years That Conflict with the Spouse Star
For men, the official star (Zheng Cai) represents the wife, and for women, the official star (Zheng Guan) represents the husband. The character representing the spouse star cannot be clashed by the heavenly stems and earthly branches of the year of marriage. This is called "the spouse star being hit by the annual heavenly stems and earthly branches," which indicates future marital problems.

How to Resolve Incompatible Birth Charts:

1. Find a Person with Compatible Birth Charts
This is the most important point. However, most people don't pay attention to this initially, and only check after problems arise. Therefore, this is not applicable for married individuals but is useful for unmarried individuals to prevent issues in advance.
2. Separate for a While if They Are Incompatible
A large part of the incompatibility comes from conflicting elements in the birth charts, leading to conflicts when they are together. At this time, separating for a while is good for both. If there is continuous quarreling without separation, it not only affects the relationship but also negatively impacts the weaker party's health. So, it is advisable to live apart for a while.
3. Buy Relevant Feng Shui Accessories
Since the birth chart cannot be changed, we can buy feng shui accessories to alleviate discomfort caused by incompatibility. This should mainly focus on the weaker party. For example, when buying a house, consider the feng shui position of the weaker party, which helps increase their strength in the birth chart, while also suppressing the stronger party's influence.

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