Marriage Compatibility by Birth Chart
One, for a man, the official star represents his wife, and for a woman, the official star represents her husband. If the spouse star is a favorable element and located in the day pillar (for example, a man with a day pillar of Wu Zi or a woman with a day pillar of Ding Hai), it indicates that the man will marry a virtuous wife and the woman will marry a noble husband, and their relationship will be very good. Additionally, if the spouse star is favorable and located in the month stem or the hour stem, the couple will also have a deep emotional connection and a good relationship. However, if this is affected by a major fortune cycle (for example, a Wu Zi day pillar encountering a major fortune cycle with the character Wu in the earth branch, or a Ding Hai day pillar encountering a major fortune cycle with the character Si in the earth branch), it may lead to tension in the marital relationship, even leading to divorce or harm to the spouse.Two, the day branch is the marriage palace. If the day branch is a peer (such as a day pillar of Yi Mao or Jia Yin, where the stem and branch belong to the same five elements and have the same yin-yang nature), or a robbery (such as Bing Wu or Ding Si, where the stem and branch belong to the same five elements but have different yin-yang natures), the couple often quarrel and are unwilling to compromise. This statement has certain conditions. It applies only when the day stem is strong. If the Bazi pattern is weak, then the peer and robbery in the day branch are usually favorable elements, and the meaning they indicate is the opposite. For a weak day stem, a peer in the day branch indicates that the couple shares the same heart and can face hardships together; a robbery in the day branch suggests that the spouse can share hardships with you, but there may be problems like conflicts or injuries due to the robber's fierce nature.
Three, the day stem represents the person himself, and the day branch represents the spouse. If the day stem is born from the day branch (like Ren Yin or Gui Mao) or the day branch is born from the day stem (like Ren Shen or Gui You), it means mutual care and consideration between the couple. This indicates that the couple can accommodate each other, or one party is more accommodating. If there are no other unfavorable combinations for marriage, such a Bazi usually results in a good marital relationship. In the Bazi compatibility for marriage, if a woman's day branch is a伤官 (offspring star), which is the case when the stem gives to the branch, but the yin-yang properties of the branch's hidden stem differ from the stem (for example, Yi Wu or Jia Wu), or if a woman with a yang stem has a food god in the earth branch (like Ren Yin), the marital relationship will not be good. Therefore, any rule has its conditions and cannot be applied universally.
Four, if the month branch is the official star or the seclusive yin (a type of imbalanced influence), the spouse lacks coordination, and you must maintain the marital relationship by understanding your partner's feelings. If the month branch is the official star or the seven kill, it may cause misunderstandings between the couple. However, this can be alleviated by the presence of the food god or the offspring star. Through the Bazi compatibility for marriage, we can see that the couple often quarrels because of the spouse's stubbornness and pressure, which accumulates instability. If both sides argue, it could escalate into a serious issue. If the month branch is the official star or the private wealth, or if it is the food god or the offspring star, it can help reduce the spouse's stubbornness and make the marriage harmonious.
Five, if the day branch is a peer or the month branch is a peer or robbery, it represents a loving relationship between the couple, but sometimes both parties are stubborn about a single matter. The most prominent example is men who struggle to communicate their opinions to their wives, while women are usually more forgiving, so such a Bazi combination is considered a sign of a good post-marriage relationship.
Method for Determining Marriage from Bazi:
For a man, if both the official and private wealth stars appear, and for a woman, if both the official and private official stars appear, it indicates a high risk of marital changes. For a man, the official star represents his wife, and the private wealth star represents a mistress. For a woman, the official star represents her husband, and the seven kill represents a lover. If the private wealth or seven kill appears, it indicates that hidden relationships will eventually surface, causing marital issues. If a woman's official star is hidden but the seven kill appears, and the husband's palace also encounters刑 (punishment), 冲 (conflict), 克 (constriction), or 合 (union), it often indicates infidelity. If the day stem does not sit on the official star, it suggests that the husband's position is unstable. If the husband's palace also encounters punishment, conflict, constriction, or union, the family is likely to break up. If a woman's official and seven kill stars are mixed, and the official star appears first, followed by the seven kill, and the earth branches also follow this order, and if the husband's palace encounters punishment, conflict, constriction, or union in the original chart or major fortune cycle, it often indicates a tendency to seek new partners. There is a special pattern known as 财绝官囚 (the wealth is exhausted and the official is imprisoned). People with this Bazi pattern are not unable to conceive, but pregnancy tends to occur later. Why? Because people with this Bazi tend to marry late, so having children comes later. What exactly is 财绝官囚 (the wealth is exhausted and the official is imprisoned)? For example, someone born on a Jia day in the You month, or someone born on a Jia day in the Chen month. In a woman's Bazi pattern, the official star represents her husband. The official star also symbolizes "responsibility, good fortune, nobility, and restraint." The印星 (yin star) represents "cultivation, knowledge, inner beauty, and gentleness." Therefore, in a woman's Bazi pattern, it is best if the official star appears on the stem and is strong, and the yin star also appears on the stem. This forms the "official and yin mutually generating" pattern. A woman with the "official and yin mutually generating" pattern usually achieves success in her career and enjoys a warm and happy marriage, envied by others. In a man's Bazi, if there are many official stars and private wealth stars (including those appearing on the stems and the main elements in the earth branches), it indicates a tendency toward extramarital affairs, flirtation, and a strong desire for the opposite sex, leading to emotional turmoil. This can cause family disputes, resulting in marital problems and multiple marriages.
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