How to determine if a marriage is happy from the Ba Zi?
1. There are many unions and few conflicts in the Ba Zi, with unions but no conflicts, more generation than destruction, and smooth generation.2. For women, the official star (Guan Xing) should be clear and not mixed, where "mixed" means both regular and irregular stars are present.
3. The伤官 (Shang Guan) and 劫财 (Jie Cai) are friendly and gentle; the five elements should not be imbalanced, not purely Yin or purely Yang.
4. For women, there is only one official star, and it is close to the day master or has affection, and is not harmed. The official star is not taken away by other stars.
5. Although the woman's official and killer stars are mixed, the killer star is controlled. Sometimes even if the official star is taken, leaving one killer star is still acceptable.
6. For men, there is only one proper wealth star (Zheng Cai), which is close to the day master and has affection with it, and is not taken away by other stars.
7. For men, the wealth stars appear frequently, but the proper wealth star is in the correct position (the marital palace), and is not restricted by others (such as union or conflict).
8. The day pillar is self-union or generates each other, indicating a harmonious relationship between the couple.
9. There is only one regular star in the Ba Zi, although it is far from the day master, it is connected with the day master, and it is a generating union.
10. The day branch is the marital palace, which is where the couple lives together. This place may not be a regular star, but if the character in the marital palace can generate the official or wealth star, it is also acceptable.
11. The regular star may not appear directly, but is hidden in another palace, for example, if Bing Fire is the official star, it may be hidden in the Yi Wood. However, this character should not be subject to punishment, conflict, destruction, harm, emptiness, burial, death, or exhaustion. In such cases, the marital palace is still good, provided that the hidden Bing Fire in the Yi Wood has a good relationship with the day master.
12. The major luck cycle does not damage the marital palace or the marital star.
13. If the印星 (Yin Xing) is the use element and is not injured or attacked, or if it is the taboo element and is controlled, it is also good.
View on the marital palace in the Ba Zi:
In the study of the Ba Zi of male and female birth charts, the day branch is considered the marital palace. Therefore, the marital palace is most favorable when the marital star sits in the palace. For example, for a man, the proper wealth star is the wife's star, and for a woman, the proper official star is the husband's star. If the spouse's star is in the marital palace in the birth chart, is strong and prosperous, and is a favorable use element in the chart, then the spouse is family-oriented and talented, and the couple will be harmonious and loving.
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