What are the marriages that clash in Ba Zi, and how can they be resolved?
1. For single individuals, first analyze both parties' birth charts to see if their favorable elements (Xizhenshen) are compatible. Choose a combination that is harmonious with the other person's chart before deciding to get married.
2. For couples who are in love but have conflicting birth charts, yet still wish to marry, you may consider not registering the marriage, not worshiping heaven and earth, and not holding a banquet to reduce the conflict. Once the conflicting period has passed, you can hold the related ceremonies and procedures later. This method is called "Avoiding the Conflict" to resolve it.
3. For married couples who have conflicts, try to maintain distance between the two of you. Reducing cohabitation can weaken the negative impact. During periods where one person is especially likely to be harmed, such as when one goes on a trip abroad or when the wife temporarily stays at her parents' house.
4. Choose a bedroom that is beneficial to the husband or wife star in your birth chart. For example, if the husband or wife star in your chart is wood, choose a bedroom on the east side of the house; if it is fire, choose the south side; if it is earth, choose the south or southwest side; if it is metal, choose the west side; if it is water, choose the north side. (This method also applies to the placement of the bed.)
5. Choose to live or work in an area that benefits the husband or wife star's element. For instance, if the husband or wife star in your chart is fire, you should choose to live or work in southern cities or warmer areas, and avoid northern regions. If the husband or wife star is earth, choose southern or central regions to live or work; if it is metal, choose western regions; if it is water, choose northern regions; if it is wood, choose eastern regions.
6. Try to get married later. Especially avoid the most severe years of being harmful to the husband or wife, or wait until after a certain period to get married. For example, if your birth chart indicates that 2014 is a year of great harm to the husband, you should consider getting married after 2014.
7. Women who have serious harm to their husbands should avoid having children during the time of serious harm. In the birth chart, children represent the "Shen" and "Shangguan" stars, which directly harm the husband star. If the child is born during the period of serious harm, the Shen and Shangguan stars will strengthen the power of the husband star in reality, increasing the harm to the husband.
8. Use religious or mystical forces, such as Taoist talismans, to eliminate the negative energy that harms the husband or wife.
9. Keep a positive mindset constantly, using your positive energy to neutralize the negative influence of harming the spouse. On the contrary, if you are always in a bad mood, the negative energy will increase the harm to your spouse, making it worse.
10. Use Feng Shui adjustments. Through Feng Shui adjustments, improve and optimize the home environment, set up Feng Shui arrangements that benefit the husband or wife star, to reduce the negative energy in the home that harms the spouse, thus significantly reducing the impact of the inherent conflict with the spouse.
2. For couples who are in love but have conflicting birth charts, yet still wish to marry, you may consider not registering the marriage, not worshiping heaven and earth, and not holding a banquet to reduce the conflict. Once the conflicting period has passed, you can hold the related ceremonies and procedures later. This method is called "Avoiding the Conflict" to resolve it.
3. For married couples who have conflicts, try to maintain distance between the two of you. Reducing cohabitation can weaken the negative impact. During periods where one person is especially likely to be harmed, such as when one goes on a trip abroad or when the wife temporarily stays at her parents' house.
4. Choose a bedroom that is beneficial to the husband or wife star in your birth chart. For example, if the husband or wife star in your chart is wood, choose a bedroom on the east side of the house; if it is fire, choose the south side; if it is earth, choose the south or southwest side; if it is metal, choose the west side; if it is water, choose the north side. (This method also applies to the placement of the bed.)
5. Choose to live or work in an area that benefits the husband or wife star's element. For instance, if the husband or wife star in your chart is fire, you should choose to live or work in southern cities or warmer areas, and avoid northern regions. If the husband or wife star is earth, choose southern or central regions to live or work; if it is metal, choose western regions; if it is water, choose northern regions; if it is wood, choose eastern regions.
6. Try to get married later. Especially avoid the most severe years of being harmful to the husband or wife, or wait until after a certain period to get married. For example, if your birth chart indicates that 2014 is a year of great harm to the husband, you should consider getting married after 2014.
7. Women who have serious harm to their husbands should avoid having children during the time of serious harm. In the birth chart, children represent the "Shen" and "Shangguan" stars, which directly harm the husband star. If the child is born during the period of serious harm, the Shen and Shangguan stars will strengthen the power of the husband star in reality, increasing the harm to the husband.
8. Use religious or mystical forces, such as Taoist talismans, to eliminate the negative energy that harms the husband or wife.
9. Keep a positive mindset constantly, using your positive energy to neutralize the negative influence of harming the spouse. On the contrary, if you are always in a bad mood, the negative energy will increase the harm to your spouse, making it worse.
10. Use Feng Shui adjustments. Through Feng Shui adjustments, improve and optimize the home environment, set up Feng Shui arrangements that benefit the husband or wife star, to reduce the negative energy in the home that harms the spouse, thus significantly reducing the impact of the inherent conflict with the spouse.
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