【Marriage Overview】
A good boat fears wind, and a good fate fears conflict; if there is a Yang Sword in the destiny, one marriage is not certain. A man who walks on the Robbery Wealth will harm his wife, and a woman who walks on the Injury Official will harm her husband. If there are two similar Heaven Stems in the Year or Month, early separation from the father is expected. If there are two similar Earthly Branches in the Year or Month, early death of the wife is expected. If not, one cannot escape self-blame.
【Early Marriage Formula】
If the Year and Month have no destruction of the Wealth and Official Stars, and the Four Pillars have three Hexagrams, then the Day Stem is strong with many Wealth and Official Stars, indicating an early marriage without doubt.
【Late Marriage Formula】
If the Wealth and Official Stars in the Day and Hour are in conflict or damage, and they are not present in the luck, then the marriage may be delayed. If the Wealth and Official Stars are harmed by the Injury Official, then both men and women may have many Robbery Wealth in their great luck.
【Pre-marital Virginity Formula】
If the Wealth is not prominent in the Year, Month, and Day, but the male's Hour Stem has a Regular Wealth, and the Hour Stem also has a wife, then it is certain that there was a pregnancy before marriage.
If the Wealth and Official Stars are not in the Couple Palace, and another branch has a close match, then there are many secret friends. If the Wife's Palace contains both Regular Wealth and Robbery Wealth, there will be many cases of loss of virginity due to conflicts, breaks, and damages.
If the Seven Killers appear in the Year or Month for a female, then her integrity is hard to preserve and she may suffer.
【Partner Direction Formula】
Start counting from the Month Branch, and stop when you reach the Birthday; find the opposite branch of the destination branch, and determine the direction with a straight line between the two points.
【Partner Proximity Formula】
If the Wife Star is not in conflict or damaged in the Year, then it is a distant woman. If the Year and Month are in conflict, the Wealth and Official Stars are far away, and the Horse Star indicates distance.
If the Wife Star is not in conflict or damaged in the Month, then it is a neighbor's daughter. If the Day Stem's Wealth and Official Stars are not in conflict or damaged, then it could be a colleague, hometown friend, or classmate.
If the Hour Stem's Wealth and Official Stars indicate late marriage, then the partner is much younger. If the Year and Day Stems are in harmony, then the partner may be found in a nearby village.
【Partner Birth Year Formula】
Where should we look for the partner's birth year? Look closely at the adjacent branches that are in conflict with the Day Stem. The conflicting branch itself is the birth year. If it is harmonized, it can also be considered.
If the Day Stem's adjacent branch has a harmony, then breaking the harmony indicates the partner's birth year. If it is harmonized with the Year Branch, then the birth year can be referenced.
【Marriage Movement Formula】
Men and women should observe the Month Command before marriage. If there is a harmony or movement, it indicates emotional changes. If the Year Harmonizes and connects with the palace, it also suggests that the marriage will change during that year.
If the body is strong and the year and luck meet the Wealth Star, then a woman seeing the Official Star will surely get married. If a man's Wealth is weak but meets a strong Wealth, and a woman's Official Star is weak but meets a strong one, marriage is certain.
If the Official and Wealth Stars are disturbed, and the year and luck form a union, then the major luck and annual luck form three harmonies, bringing joy and celebration.
If a man meets the Moon and a woman meets the Sun, and the favorable elements arrive, then the marriage will move forward. If the partner is disturbed and meets a harmony, or if the partner is harmonized and meets a disturbance, then the marriage will change.
If the Year's桃花 (Flower) harmonizes with the destiny, then the couple will live together and get married.
【Marriage Time Formula】
To know the year of marriage, look for the Red Swallow and Heavenly Joy, which bring happiness. For men, use the Sun; for women, use the Moon. The year when the Day Stem is moved is the marriage year.
The native's great luck and the annual luck, along with the three harmonies of the偶星 (lucky stars), combine with the best elements. If the lucky stars are strong in the annual luck and the native's luck, then the annual luck will lead to a good marriage.
If the annual luck shows the Female Official for men and the Wealth for women, and both are strong, then it is a marriage year. If the annual luck, great luck, and the native's chart all align, then the marriage will be blessed with harmony.
If the lucky star appears early, the marriage is early; if it appears late or not at all, the marriage is late. If it is stored, do not rush; the marriage will definitely occur during the conflict period.
【Flower Formula】
Children walking the Flower path are praised everywhere; middle-aged men walking the Flower path will lose their fortune; women walking the Flower path will have money everywhere.
Old people walking the Flower path feel confused. Flowers inside the house cause the death of parents, while flowers outside the house do not ruin the family.
【Blind Master's Marriage Song】
Men look at the Regular Wealth, women look at the Official Star. First distinguish whether the Wealth and Official Stars are controlled or supported. Then look at the luck and year to determine the time. This is the time of the wedding chamber.
If the Regular Wealth and Official Star are not present, then look at the Irregular Wealth and the Killing Star. If neither the Official nor the Wealth Star is present, look for a substitute star in the stems and branches.
If a woman's Three Mysteries are in the right position, she will surely live in wealth. If she is restricted by the Official and Wealth, she will be honored and step into the golden hall.
If the Husband Star controls the Wealth and Official Stars, then she will sit comfortably in wealth. When the Official Star is strong, and the Injury Official Star comes, she will hold the letter in her hand.
If the Four Noble Stars fall into the Empty Death, she will spend her life alone by the lamp. If the Day Stem is in conflict, injury, or piercing of the Official and Killing Stars, she must marry multiple times.
If there are flowers everywhere, it is clear that she is doing secret work. If the Official and Killing Stars are injured, she will not die but will be separated.
If the Official Star appears in the Heaven Stem and the Killing Star is hidden, she will first become a concubine and later be married. If the Official Star is harmonized in the Day Stem, she is destined to be married.
If the Male Wealth falls in the Hour Stem, it is secretly harmonized with the Day Stem, but because of poverty, he is forced to enter the family as a son-in-law.
If the Water gathers in the strong area, the husband is uncontrolled, and the Lonely Star and the Widow Star come together, adding the Four Deficiencies and Four Conflicts, she will be immoral and destroy the family. If the harmony contains conflict, injury, and piercing, a man will have three wives and a woman will kill her husband.
If the Official Star, the Husband Star, is injured, and there are also Wealth and Seal Stars, a woman will marry multiple husbands and face imprisonment. If the Official Star is the Wife's Star, it is the same. If the Food and Injury Stars disrupt the pattern, the wife will commit crimes and be imprisoned.
If the Day Stem is in conflict, injury, or piercing of the Wealth and Official Stars, a man will have multiple marriages and a woman will be harmed. If the man or woman sits on the Flower Star, then look at the harmony of Wealth and Official Stars. A man harmonizing Wealth may have two wives, and a woman harmonizing Official may have affairs.
If the Hidden Killing Star is in conflict and pierced, the husband will have flowers and the marriage will end. If the Hidden Wealth is in conflict and pierced, the wife will be a resentful wife, and after marriage, the affair continues.
If the Wealth and Official Stars appear in the Heaven Stem and are harmonized twice, a man will marry a widow, and a woman will become a concubine. If the Official and Wealth Stars are in conflict and harmonized with the Food and Injury Stars, it will result in losing a spouse and relying on children.
If the Wealth is intercepted, the man will be lonely. If the Husband Star lacks source, the woman will not marry. If the Hour Stem is in the Yin or Chou, the man will be lonely and the woman will be a widow. Another clear statement says that a man marries a young woman, and a woman marries an old man, living alone.
How to read the love and marriage through Ba Zi is a common topic, and it is an important part of Ba Zi marriage calculation. Many people seeking calculations often ask about it, so it is essential to memorize these formulas, making it easier to judge the love and marriage through Ba Zi.

For a man whose destiny is strong, with many Brothers and Sisters, and many Wealth Stars but no root
In a man's destiny, the Wealth Star represents the wife, and the Brothers and Sisters are the enemies who control the Wealth Star. Therefore, a man with many Brothers and Sisters and strong power naturally disadvantages the wife, indicating that the wife faces a difficult environment. This environment can be observed from the surrounding Ten Gods of the Wealth Star. Those with the Wealth Star and Brothers and Sisters close together have the worst environment for the wife. Therefore, the Wealth Star must also be strong, because only when the Wealth Star has enough strength can it resist the control of the Brothers and Sisters.
If a man has many Wealth Stars but no roots, it means he will have many women in his life; however, since the Wealth Stars are numerous but lack roots, they tend to float, disappear, and lack stability. In addition, the Brothers and Sisters controlling the Wealth Star naturally indicate gaining wealth, so a man with many Brothers and Sisters and Wealth Stars tends to attract many women. However, the Brothers and Sisters also carry negative effects such as separation and betrayal, so such a man is likely to betray his wife and seek new lovers.