Marriage should be compatible
Marriage relies on fate, but in essence, it is about whether both parties can find common ground in their preferences. For example, a person born in the Year of the Rat who meets someone born in the Year of the Monkey. Since this man is strong in metal and water, he is naturally charming and flirtatious. They may be good companions and appreciate each other, but they might not necessarily be suitable as lifelong partners. If a woman has a Bazi that is destructive to her husband, she should find a man with a strong character who can withstand such influence. Like a sieve and a spoon in the same pot, they can counteract each other’s negative energies and avoid mutual harm. Therefore, for those with an unfavorable Bazi regarding marriage, choosing a compatible partner is very important.
Marry at a favorable time
It is best to choose a period that benefits both parties for marriage. For instance, if the year aligns with the person's supportive elements in their Bazi, it is likely to be a time when they are successful and happy. Marrying during this time will bring even more joy and happiness. On the contrary, if the year is unfavorable due to the presence of the person's conflicting elements, it is a time when they may feel exhausted and troubled. Marrying during such a time would likely lead to problems.
Proper separation
People with Bazi where the day stem and hour stem clash, especially when the official star (or financial star) and the spouse palace clash, often experience difficulties in their marriage. Couples with an unfavorable Bazi tend to have greater conflicts when they are too close. If they can live apart temporarily during unfavorable years, they can overcome the difficult period, and their relationship can return to being loving and harmonious afterwards.
Doing good deeds
Some women have a Bazi that includes elements like injury star or yang blade, which may suggest an unhappy marriage. However, in reality, these people may have very happy marriages with their husbands. If you are kind and do good deeds towards others, you will naturally treat your loved ones with kindness and compassion. Over time, this self-cultivation and mutual understanding can help stabilize even an unstable marriage.
Feng Shui remedies
Some home Feng Shui can also affect one's marriage luck. For men, if there are significant missing corners in the house's震 (Zhen), 艮 (Gen), or 坎 (Kan) directions, and if there are unclean items placed there, it may hinder marriage. For women, if the house's 兑 (Dui), 乾 (Qian), or 坤 (Kun) directions have water-related objects such as wells, water towers, ponds, baths, or water treatment plants, then even if she is beautiful, she may end up as a "leftover woman."
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