Characteristics of Unhappy Marriages in Ba Zi:
1. Female Ba Zi:1. If a woman's day pillar is a "Shangguan" (伤官), her marriage may be bad. In Ba Zi theory, women are represented by the "Guan" (官星) as the husband. A woman with "Shangguan" tends to be temperamental, unmanageable, often opposing her husband, and prefers freedom, which leads to poor marital relations. Especially for women whose day pillar is Jia Wu, Yi Si, Geng Zi, or Xin Hai, their marriages are usually unhappy.
2. Women with strong "Shangguan" and many "Shi Shen" (食神) in their Ba Zi tend to have poor marriages.
"Shangguan" destroys the "Guan" (representing the spouse), and when "Shi Shen" becomes excessive, it transforms into "Shangguan," leading to instability in marriage. Women with many "Shangguan" and "Shi Shen" are usually independent, dislike being controlled, but like to control their husbands, have unstable emotions, are prone to infidelity, and can cause their husbands to have extramarital affairs, making the marriage difficult to last.
3. Women with mixed "Guan" (正官) and "Sha" (七杀) in their Ba Zi, especially when both appear in the same pillar, are likely to have a second marriage.
In Ba Zi theory, "Guan" represents the husband, while "Sha" (also known as "Qisha") represents a lover. If a woman has both "Guan" and "Sha" in her chart, it indicates she will have both a husband and lovers. The presence of both "Guan" and "Sha" suggests potential problems in her marriage, possibly leading to divorce or extramarital affairs, depending on the specific combination.
4. Women whose marriage palace and spouse palace encounter "Xing" (刑) or "Chong" (冲) in their Ba Zi have unstable marriages.
The month pillar represents the marriage palace, and the day pillar represents the spouse palace, like the couple's bedroom. If it is attacked, how can the marriage remain stable? When the year or fate luck also encounters "Xing" or "Chong," it may lead to marital breakdowns.
2. Male Ba Zi:
1. Men with "Jiecai" (劫财) in their day pillar often have unstable marriages, and in severe cases, they may divorce or even harm their wives.
Men born on days such as Bing Wu, Ding Si, Ren Zi, or Gui Hai have "Jiecai" in their day pillar. The day pillar represents the spouse palace, and it should ideally be a "Cai" (财星). However, if "Cai" is taken by "Jiecai," will the marriage be good? This results in disharmony between the couple or the wife's health issues, and even tragic separations or deaths.
2. Men with multiple "Bi" (比肩) and "Jiecai" in their Ba Zi have unstable marriages.
"Bi" and "Jiecai" both suppress the wife's wealth. Men with many "Bi" and "Jiecai" tend to be irritable, impulsive, and emotionally unstable, with strong competitiveness and narrow-mindedness, leading to poor marital relationships. Additionally, such men are more likely to have their wives involved with friends or colleagues, which is detrimental to marital stability.
3. Men with many "Piacai" (偏财) in their Ba Zi are more prone to being flirtatious and having extramarital affairs.
In Ba Zi theory, "Zhengcai" (正财) represents the wife, while "Piacai" (偏财) represents lovers. A man with many "Piacai" will have many lovers. A man with many "Piacai" and no "Zhengcai" tends to be flirtatious, lacks family values, and often spends time with other women outside. The classic text says, "A man with 'Piacai' in his day pillar loves concubines more than his wife." A man with many "Shishen" (食神) and "Shangguan" (伤官) combined with "Piacai" is flamboyant, lustful, and has strong sexual desires, easily tempted by beautiful women, leading to infidelity and affecting marital harmony.
4. Men whose marriage palace encounters "Xing" or "Chong" in their Ba Zi have unstable marriages.
The reasoning is similar to that of women, so it is not repeated here. In addition to the mutual "Xing" or "Chong" among the earth branches in the Ba Zi, if the year or fate luck causes "Xing" or "Chong" to the day pillar, it often marks the period of marital breakdown or disaster.
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