Method of Determining Marriage through Ba Zi Four Pillars:
If a man's Ba Zi has both the official and hidden wealth elements prominent, or if a woman's Ba Zi has both the official and hidden official elements prominent, it is easy to experience marital changes.For men, the official wealth represents the wife, while the hidden wealth represents a lover. For women, the official element represents the husband, and the seven killing element represents a lover. If the hidden wealth or the seven killing element appears, it indicates that hidden relationships will eventually surface, leading to marital issues.
If a woman's Ba Zi has the official element hidden but the seven killing element prominent, and her husband's pillar also encounters刑、冲、克、合 (punishment, conflict, destruction, and union),
If a woman's Ba Zi has the official element concealed but the seven killing element prominent, this often indicates that she may be unfaithful. If the day master does not sit on the official element, it means the man's status is unstable. If the husband's pillar also encounters punishment, conflict, destruction, or union, the family often breaks down.
If a woman's Ba Zi has mixed official and seven killing elements, with the official element appearing first and then the seven killing element, and the earthly branches also show the official element first followed by the seven killing element, and if the husband's pillar encounters punishment, conflict, destruction, or union in the original configuration or major luck cycle, it often indicates that one tends to fall in love with new people and becomes bored with old ones.
There is a certain configuration known as "wealth element exhausted, official element imprisoned." People with such a Ba Zi are not unable to have children, but they tend to have them later. Why? Because people with this Ba Zi tend to marry late, so having children comes late. What is "wealth element exhausted, official element imprisoned"? For example, a person born on an Jia day in the You month, or a person born on an Jia day in the Chen month.
In a woman's Ba Zi configuration, the official element represents the husband star. The official element for a woman also symbolizes "responsibility, good fortune, dignity, and restraint." The印星 (Yin Star) represents "cultivation, knowledge, inner beauty, and gentleness." Therefore, in a woman's Ba Zi configuration, it is most favorable for the official element to appear prominently on the heavenly stems and be rooted strongly, and for the official Yin element to also appear on the heavenly stems. This forms the "official-yin mutual generation" configuration. A woman with the "official-yin mutual generation" configuration usually achieves success in her career and has a warm and happy marriage life, which makes others jealous.
In a man's Ba Zi, if there are many official and hidden wealth elements (including those appearing on the heavenly stems and the main energy in the earthly branches), it is easy to have extramarital affairs, be flirtatious, have multiple lovers, and have a strong desire for the opposite sex, thus causing emotional problems. This leads to instability in marital and emotional relationships, resulting in family disputes and marital breakdowns, indicating a tendency toward multiple marriages.
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