【Marriage Overview】
A good boat fears wind, and a good destiny fears conflict. If there's a Yang Sword in one's destiny, marriage will not be stable. A man who moves toward the Robbery Wealth will harm his wife, while a woman moving toward the Injury Official will harm her husband. If there are two similar characters in the Heavenly Stems, it indicates early separation from father; if there are two similar characters in the Earthly Branches, it suggests early loss of wife. If not, it means one cannot get along with family.
【Early Marriage Rule】
If the Financial and Official Stars in the Year and Month are unbroken, and the Four Pillars have three Six Harmonies, and the Day Master is strong with many Financial and Official Stars, it is an indication of early marriage.
【Late Marriage Rule】
If the Financial and Official Stars in the Day and Hour are in conflict or damage, or if the Financial and Official Stars are not present and the luck is slow, then it is a sign of late marriage. If the Financial and Official Stars are harmed by the Injury Official, and both men and women have many Robbery Wealth in their major luck periods, it also indicates late marriage.
【Pre-Marital Virginity Rule】
If the Financial Star is not evident in the Year, Month, and Day, but the male's Hour Stem has the Regular Financial Star, and the Hour Stem contains the wife, it indicates pregnancy before marriage.
If the Financial and Official Stars are not in the Spousal Palace, and there are many close relationships in other branches, it suggests that the wife may lose her virginity. If the Spousal Palace contains both the Regular Financial Star and the Robbery Wealth, and there are conflicts, it also indicates a loss of virginity.
If the Seven Killing Star appears in the Year and Month of a female, it suggests difficulty in maintaining chastity.
【Partner Direction Rule】
Start counting from the Month Branch, and stop at the Day of Birth; find the opposite branch of the landing branch, and determine the direction by drawing a straight line between the two points.
【Partner Proximity Rule】
If the Wife Star is not conflicting or damaging the Year, it indicates a distant wife. If the Year and Month clash, the Financial and Official Stars are far away, and the Horse of Finance is far away, it indicates a long distance. If the Wife Star is not conflicting or damaging the Month, it indicates a neighbor girl. If the Day Stem and the Financial and Official Stars are not conflicting, it suggests a colleague, townsman, or classmate. If the Hour Stem has the Financial and Official Stars, it indicates a late marriage with a younger partner. If the Year and Day stems are compatible, it suggests finding a partner nearby.
【Partner's Zodiac Sign Rule】
To find the partner's zodiac sign, check the neighboring branch that is in conflict with the Day Stem. The conflicting branch itself represents the partner's zodiac sign. If the conflicting branch is contained, it may also be considered. If the Day Stem and the neighboring branch are compatible, breaking the compatibility indicates the partner's zodiac sign. If it is compatible with the Year Branch, the zodiac sign itself may be considered.
【Marriage Movement Rule】
Before marriage, examine the Month Commanding Stem. If it meets a harmony or movement, it indicates emotional changes. If the Annual Cycle forms a Six Harmony, it also suggests marriage movements during that year. If the Day Master is strong and encounters the Financial Star in the yearly luck, and a female encounters the Official Star, marriage is certain. If the male's Financial Star is weak but in a strong position, and the female's Official Star is weak but in a strong position, marriage is likely. If the Official and Financial Stars are disturbed and the yearly and major luck form a harmony, it indicates a happy event. If the male encounters the Moon and the female encounters the Sun, and the favorable elements arrive, it indicates marriage movement. If the partner is in conflict and then harmonized, or in harmony and then in conflict, it indicates a change in the partner. If the annual cycle's桃花 (Flower) Harmony enters the fate, it indicates cohabitation and marriage.
【Marriage Time Rule】
To know when the marriage will occur, look for the Red Swallow and Heaven Joy stars which bring joy. For males, use the Sun, and for females, use the Moon. If the Day Stem is moved, it indicates the marriage year. If the main fate, major luck, and annual cycle all align, and the lucky stars match, it brings joy. If the annual cycle shows the Female Official for males and the Financial Star for females, and they are strong, it indicates a marriage year. If the annual cycle, major luck, and fate all align, and there are both celestial and earthly harmonies, it brings happiness. If the lucky stars appear early, marriage occurs early; if they appear late, marriage occurs late. If they are stored, do not rush; marriage will definitely occur during the conflict period.
【Flower Rule】
Children who walk the Flower path are praised everywhere. Men who walk the Flower path in middle age may lose their fortune. Women who walk the Flower path may spend money everywhere. Elderly people who walk the Flower path may feel confused. If the Flower path is inside the house, it may lead to the death of parents; if outside the house, it may not cause trouble.
【Blind Master's Marriage Song Rule】
Males should look at the Regular Financial Star, females at the Official Star. First distinguish whether the Financial and Official Stars are controlled or supported, then determine the timing based on the luck and year. This is the time of the wedding night.
If the Regular Financial Star and Regular Official Star are not present, look at the Irregular Financial Star and Killing Star. If neither the Official nor the Financial Stars are present, find the substitute stars in the stems and branches.
If a female's Three Oddities are in the correct position, she will surely live in wealth. If she is constrained by both the Official and Financial Stars, she may receive honors and enter the palace of nobility.
If the Husband Star controls the Financial and Official Stars, she will live in wealth with her husband. If the Official Star is strong and the female enters the Injury Official Luck, she will hold a letter in her hand.
If the Four Noble Positions fall into the Empty Field, she will spend her life alone with only a lamp. If the Day Stem is in conflict, injury, or piercing with the Official and Killing Stars, she will marry more than once.
If there are many Flowers everywhere, it indicates that she is always receiving attention and secretly engaging in prostitution. If the Official and Killing Stars are injured, she will either die or be separated.
If the Official Star is visible in the Heavenly Stems and hidden in the Earthly Branches, she will first become a concubine and later be married. If the Official Star is matched in the Day Stem, she is destined to be married by the altar.
If the Male Financial Star falls in the Hour Stem, it is formed by two hidden matches in the Day Stem, but due to poverty, he may end up marrying into another family.
If the Water is gathered in the strong area and the Husband Star is uncontrolled, it leads to being a widow or widower. Adding the Four Defeats and Four Conflicts, it results in immorality and ruining the husband's family. If the Harmony contains Conflict, Injury, or Piercing, it may indicate multiple wives for men and husbands' deaths for women.
If the Husband Star is injured or damaged, and there are also Financial and Honor Stars, a woman may marry multiple husbands and face legal problems. If the Official Star is the Wife's Star, it is also the case. If there are Injury and Official Stars that disrupt the pattern, the wife may face legal issues.
If the Day Stem is in conflict, injury, or piercing with the Financial and Official Stars, it indicates multiple marriages for men and injuries for women. If the Day Stem is in the Flower Path, check the match with the Financial and Official Stars. A man who matches the Financial Star may have two wives, while a woman who matches the Official Star may have affairs.
If the Hidden Killing Star encounters Injury, Conflict, or Piercing, the husband may have infidelity and lead to separation. If the Hidden Financial Star is in conflict or injury, it indicates marrying a resentful wife, and after marriage, the affair continues.
If the Financial and Official Stars are visible and meet two Harmonies, it indicates a man marrying a widow or a woman becoming a concubine. If the Official and Financial Stars are in conflict with the Injury and Official Stars, it leads to losing a spouse and relying on children.
If the Financial Source is robbed, the husband will be lonely. If the Husband Star lacks source, the woman will not marry. If the Hour Stem is in the combination of Yin and Hai or Yin and Chou, the husband will be lonely, and the woman will be a widow. Another rule clearly states that a man marries a young woman and sleeps together, while a woman marries an older man and lives alone.
How to read the marriage fate through the Eight Characters is a common topic, and it is an important part of Ba Zi marriage calculation. Many people ask about this, so it is necessary to memorize these rules to better judge the marriage fate through the Eight Characters.