【Marriage Overview】
A good boat fears wind, a good destiny fears conflict; if there is an "Yang Blade" in the destiny, there will be one marriage at most. A man who walks on the "Robbery Wealth" will harm his wife, and a woman who walks on the "Injury Official" will harm her husband. If there are two "Comparisons" in the heavenly stems, it indicates early separation from the father; if there are two "Comparisons" in the earthly branches, it indicates early death of the wife. If not disrespectful or unlucky, it is due to one's own faults.
【Early Marriage Saying】
If the financial and official elements in the year and month are not broken, and the four pillars have three combinations and six harmonies, with the day stem strong and having many financial and official elements, it is a sign of early marriage.
【Late Marriage Saying】
If the financial and official elements in the day and time are in conflict or harmed, and the financial and official elements are not present in the lucky years, the financial and official elements are affected by the harmful elements, and both men and women have many "Robbery Wealth" in their great luck years.
【Pre-Marital Virginity Saying】
If the financial element is not prominent in the year, month, and day, and the male's time pillar has a proper financial element, and the time pillar has the wife, then it must be that she was pregnant first and then married.
When the financial and official elements are not in the couple's palace, and there are many close relationships in other branches, the wife's palace contains both the proper financial and robbery wealth elements, leading to loss of virginity due to conflicts and harms.
In a female's destiny, if the "Seven Killers" appear in the year and month, her chastity is hard to preserve, and her body may suffer consequences.
【Spouse Direction Saying】
Starting from the month branch, remember clearly, count until the birthday, stop at the falling branch, and find the opposite branch. Draw a line between these two points to determine the direction.
【Spouse Proximity Saying】
If the wife's star is not conflicting or harming the year, it indicates a distant wife. If the year and month conflict, the financial and official elements are far away, and the horse of the road indicates distance.
If the wife's star is not conflicting or harming the month, it indicates a nearby wife. If the day pillar's financial and official elements are not conflicting or harming, it indicates a colleague, neighbor, or classmate.
If the time pillar's financial and official elements indicate late marriage, the spouse is much younger. If the year and day pillars have compatibility, it indicates that the spouse is found near the parents-in-law.
【Spouse Birth Year Saying】
Where to find the spouse's birth year? Look carefully at the adjacent branch that is being clashed. The clashed one itself is the birth year, and if it is blocked by a combination, it can also be considered.
If the day branch and adjacent branch have a combination, breaking the combination indicates the birth year. If it is combined with the year branch, the birth year can be referenced.
【Marriage Movement Saying】
Before marriage, look at the month's command, and when there is a combination or movement, emotions will be stirred. When the year's六合 (six harmonies) enters the palace, it indicates that marriage will move that year.
If the body is strong and the year and luck meet the financial element, a woman seeing the official element will definitely get married. If a man's financial element is weak but meets the strong, and a woman's official element is weak but meets the strong, it will result in marriage.
If the official and financial elements are moved, and the year and luck form a combination, the great luck and the current year form three combinations and six harmonies, and the Red Phoenix and Heavenly Joy bring happiness.
If a man meets the Moon and a woman meets the Sun, and the favorable elements arrive, the marriage will move. If the spouse is clashed and then met, or met and then clashed, it indicates a change in the spouse.
If the year's love element combines with the destiny, it will definitely lead to cohabitation and marriage.
【Marriage Time Saying】
To know when marriage occurs, look for the Red Phoenix and Heavenly Joy. For men, use the Sun; for women, use the Moon. When the day branch is moved, it is the marriage year.
When the birth year, great luck, and current year combine, and the three combinations and six harmonies match the auspicious stars, and the current year and luck are strong, the current year will bring a good match.
If the current year brings the female official for men and the financial element for women, and they are strong, it is a year of marriage. If the current year, great luck, and destiny all match, and there are heavenly and earthly harmonies, it brings joy.
If the auspicious stars appear early, marriage happens early; if they appear late, marriage happens late. If they are stored, do not rush, and marriage will definitely occur during the clash period.
【Love Element Saying】
A child walking the love element is praised everywhere; a man in middle age walking the love element will lose the family fortune; a woman walking the love element will have money everywhere.
An old person walking the love element will feel confused inside. The love element within the house causes the death of parents, while the love element outside does not cause any trouble.
【Blind Master's Marriage Saying】
For men, look at the proper financial element; for women, look at the official element. First, distinguish whether the financial and official elements are controlled or supported. Then, look at the luck and year to determine the time, which is the time for the wedding night.
If the proper financial and official elements are not present, look at the hidden financial and killing elements. If neither the official nor financial elements are present, look for substitute elements in the stems and branches.
If a woman has the three mysteries in the correct position, she will live in wealth all her life. If she is constrained by the official and financial elements, she will be honored and step into the golden hall.
If the husband's element controls the financial and official elements, she will sit in wealth and prosperity. If the official element is strong and the injury element comes, she will write letters and hold them in her hand.
If the four treasures fall into the void, she will spend her life alone, living with a lamp. If the day branch is in conflict, injury, or piercing, it indicates multiple marriages, and it is unlikely to marry only once.
If there are many love elements, it means she is a mistress. If the official and killing elements are injured, she will either die or be separated.
If the official element appears in the heavenly stem and the killing element is hidden, she will first become a concubine and later be married. If the official element is combined in the day pillar, she is destined to marry a wealthy man.
If the male financial element falls in the time pillar, and there are two combinations in the day branch, it indicates he is poor and has to join the family as a son-in-law.
If the water element gathers in the strong area, the husband has no control, and the lonely and isolated elements come together, along with the four failures and four conflicts, she will end up immoral and destroy the family. If the combination contains conflict, injury, and piercing, it means a man will have three wives and a woman will harm her husband.
If the official element, representing the husband, is injured, and there are financial and wisdom elements involved, a woman will marry multiple husbands and face imprisonment. If the official element is the wife's element, it is the same. If there are injury and wisdom elements disrupting the pattern, the wife may commit crimes and be imprisoned.
If the day branch conflicts, injures, or pierces the financial and official elements, it indicates multiple marriages for men and injuries for women. If the day position is the love element, it should also consider the combination of financial and official elements. A man combining financial elements may have two wives, and a woman combining official elements may have affairs.
If the hidden killer element is in conflict, injury, or piercing, the husband will have love affairs and must separate. If the hidden financial element is in conflict or piercing, the wife will be taken in by someone else, and after marriage, the affair continues.
If the financial and official elements are exposed and combined, a man will marry a widow or a concubine. If the official or financial elements are in conflict with the injury or wisdom elements, it leads to losing a spouse and relying on children.
If the financial source is robbed, the man will be lonely. If the husband's element has no source, the woman will not get married. If the time pillar falls in the寅亥 or 寅丑, the man will be lonely and the woman will be a widow. There is another clear statement: a man marrying a young girl will sleep together, and a woman marrying an older man will stay alone in an empty room.
How to assess love through Ba Zi is a common topic, and it is an important part of Ba Zi marriage analysis. Many people asking for analysis often ask about this, so it is important to memorize these sayings to better judge the love aspect of Ba Zi.