How to interpret the Ba Zi for marriage and emotions?
1. Women with the Day Stem sitting on the Injury Official (Shang Guan): Women born on the days of Jia Wu, Yi Si, Geng Zi, and Xin Hai have their Day Stem sitting on the Injury Official, and their marriage is generally unsatisfactory. In severe cases, they may harm their husbands. In less severe cases, they may get divorced. Even in milder cases, there may be long-term marital disharmony. This situation may also lead to poor health in the husband.
2. Women with a strong Injury Official and many Food Gods (Shi Shen): Women with many Injury Officials and Food Gods tend to dislike being controlled, yet they like to control their husbands. They have bad tempers and unstable emotions, are prone to infidelity, and may cause their husbands to have extramarital affairs, leading to an unstable marriage.
3. Women with mixed Official (Guan) and Robber (Sha) in their Ba Zi: Normally, the Official represents the husband, and the Robber represents the lover. If a woman has both the Official and Robber in her Ba Zi, it means she will have both a husband and a lover. The Ba Zi is like a person's living space. If a woman's living space includes both her husband and a lover, can her emotional life be peaceful? It indicates that her marriage will face difficulties. She may either divorce and remarry or have extramarital relationships, depending on the specific combination.
4. Women whose Marriage Palace (Xu) is in conflict: The Marriage Palace is like the couple's home. When it is in conflict, it is as if it is constantly being hit by some force. Can such a home remain stable? A conflicting Marriage Palace easily leads to marital problems. Women with other unfavorable combinations and whose Marriage Palace is in threefold punishment (San Xing) or self-punishment (Zi Xing) also face adverse effects on their marriage.
5. Women with certain negative deities (Shen Sha): Women born on the following twelve days are considered to have the "Yin Cha Yang Cuo" (阴阳差错) day: Bing Wu, Bing Zi, Ding Liu, Ding Chou, Wu Shen, Wu Yin, Xin You, Xin Mao, Ren Xu, Ren Chen, Gui Si, Gui Hai. According to "San Ming Tong Hui," it says: "If a woman is born on these days, she will have conflicts with her parents-in-law and sisters-in-law, and her husband's family will decline. If a man is born on these days, he will lose support from his wife's family and have disputes with them. This deity affects both men and women. If it appears twice or thrice in the month, day, and hour, the impact is extremely serious. Especially if it appears only on the day, it indicates that one cannot rely on the support of the wife's family. Even if one has wealth from the wife, it is meaningless, and later, one may become enemies with the wife's family and stop communicating." The "Yin Cha Yang Cuo" day is the most obvious sign of marital misfortune.
"Kui Gang" days refer to: Wu Xu, Geng Chen, Geng Xu, and Ren Chen. Kui Gang means the highest and most extreme forces of heaven and earth.
"Yang Yin" days refer to: The Yang Yin for Jia is in Mao, for Yi is in Yin, for Bing and Wu is in Wu, for Ding and Ji is in Si, for Geng is in You, for Xin is in Shen, for Ren is in Zi, and for Gui is in Hai.
To find out: Take the Day Stem as the basis. If any of the four branches match, it is considered to have this deity. If these deities appear in the Ba Zi, regardless of gender, it mostly indicates marital misfortune.
2. Women with a strong Injury Official and many Food Gods (Shi Shen): Women with many Injury Officials and Food Gods tend to dislike being controlled, yet they like to control their husbands. They have bad tempers and unstable emotions, are prone to infidelity, and may cause their husbands to have extramarital affairs, leading to an unstable marriage.
3. Women with mixed Official (Guan) and Robber (Sha) in their Ba Zi: Normally, the Official represents the husband, and the Robber represents the lover. If a woman has both the Official and Robber in her Ba Zi, it means she will have both a husband and a lover. The Ba Zi is like a person's living space. If a woman's living space includes both her husband and a lover, can her emotional life be peaceful? It indicates that her marriage will face difficulties. She may either divorce and remarry or have extramarital relationships, depending on the specific combination.
4. Women whose Marriage Palace (Xu) is in conflict: The Marriage Palace is like the couple's home. When it is in conflict, it is as if it is constantly being hit by some force. Can such a home remain stable? A conflicting Marriage Palace easily leads to marital problems. Women with other unfavorable combinations and whose Marriage Palace is in threefold punishment (San Xing) or self-punishment (Zi Xing) also face adverse effects on their marriage.
5. Women with certain negative deities (Shen Sha): Women born on the following twelve days are considered to have the "Yin Cha Yang Cuo" (阴阳差错) day: Bing Wu, Bing Zi, Ding Liu, Ding Chou, Wu Shen, Wu Yin, Xin You, Xin Mao, Ren Xu, Ren Chen, Gui Si, Gui Hai. According to "San Ming Tong Hui," it says: "If a woman is born on these days, she will have conflicts with her parents-in-law and sisters-in-law, and her husband's family will decline. If a man is born on these days, he will lose support from his wife's family and have disputes with them. This deity affects both men and women. If it appears twice or thrice in the month, day, and hour, the impact is extremely serious. Especially if it appears only on the day, it indicates that one cannot rely on the support of the wife's family. Even if one has wealth from the wife, it is meaningless, and later, one may become enemies with the wife's family and stop communicating." The "Yin Cha Yang Cuo" day is the most obvious sign of marital misfortune.
"Kui Gang" days refer to: Wu Xu, Geng Chen, Geng Xu, and Ren Chen. Kui Gang means the highest and most extreme forces of heaven and earth.
"Yang Yin" days refer to: The Yang Yin for Jia is in Mao, for Yi is in Yin, for Bing and Wu is in Wu, for Ding and Ji is in Si, for Geng is in You, for Xin is in Shen, for Ren is in Zi, and for Gui is in Hai.
To find out: Take the Day Stem as the basis. If any of the four branches match, it is considered to have this deity. If these deities appear in the Ba Zi, regardless of gender, it mostly indicates marital misfortune.
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