Features of a Happy Marriage in Ba Zi

Marital Day Pillar is Nourished
The husband's day pillar nourishes the wife's day pillar, indicating that the husband loves his wife and is willing to do many things for her. The wife's day pillar nourishes the husband's day pillar, indicating that the wife deeply loves the husband and takes good care of his daily life, respects his choices, etc. For example, if the husband's day pillar is Jia Wood, the wife's day pillar is Ding Fire, which means wood nourishes fire, and so on.
People change, so love won't last forever. When we are in love, we must like each other, and after marriage, we must respect each other. Only such love can last. Everything that couples do for each other should not be mentioned constantly, always trying to make the other remember your kindness. This is wrong. If couples always expect gratitude, the marriage will surely fail. Remember this well.
Complementary Useful Gods Between Couples
Each Ba Zi has a useful god and an adverse god. When the couple's favorable and adverse elements complement each other, they can live harmoniously and depend on each other. A complementary couple works well together, with one managing external affairs and taking responsibility for building a career and supporting the family, while the other manages the household, carefully taking care of the family, allowing the one who works externally to have no worries. The couple should have one person making decisions and the other accompanying, reaching a consensus and working together to create a happy and fulfilling family.

Features of an Unhappy Marriage in Ba Zi

The Day Pillar is the Robber God (Jie Cai)
Men born on days such as Bing Wu, Ding Si, Ren Zi, and Gui Hai have their day pillar as the Robber God. The day pillar is the marital palace, which represents the wife's "home" in the man's Ba Zi. If a robber god appears in the wife's home, it may severely harm the wife, or at least cause divorce, or at the very least lead to long-term disharmony between the couple.
The Ba Zi Has Strong Robber Gods
In a man's Ba Zi, the Robber God (Bi Jie) harms the Main Wealth (Zheng Cai), which represents the wife. Men with strong Robber Gods tend to be impulsive and prone to divorce. Moreover, there are often many friends around them who envy their wives, which is detrimental to the stability of the marriage. Men with strong Robber Gods tend to be irritable, aggressive, easily taken advantage of, and have strong possessiveness, often imposing extreme control over their wives. Therefore, most of these men struggle to maintain a lasting marriage.
The Marital Palace Is in Conflict
The marital palace refers to the earthly branch of the day pillar in the Ba Zi. It is like the couple's marital home. When the marital palace is in conflict, it is as if it is constantly being hit by some force, making the marital home unstable. The marital palace being in conflict is most likely to lead to marital breakdown. There are six pairs of conflicting earthly branches: Zi-Wu, Chou-Wei, Yin-Shen, Mao-You, Chen-Xu, and Si-Hai. If the earthly branch of the birth month or the birth hour conflicts with the day pillar's earthly branch, and there is no other branch to resolve the conflict, it is considered that the marital palace is in conflict. A major period with a conflicting earthly branch also indicates instability in the marriage. Additionally, men whose marital palace is in conflict with another branch (Xing) will also experience marital difficulties.