Happy Marriage in Ba Zi
Parents' Palace is a Favorable ElementThe month of birth represents the parents' palace and the brothers' palace, symbolizing the parents and elders as well as siblings, and also indicating whether the family is harmonious. If the month of birth is favorable in the Ba Zi, it means that the parents are kind, and the siblings are supportive and loyal. The couple respects and takes care of each other's parents, and the family lives in harmony. This is truly a case of two families living in peace, with great merit.
Marriage is not just a matter for one family, especially in modern times when there are so many only-child families. A good relationship within one family is not enough; it's the connection between two families that matters. After marriage, the daughter-in-law becomes an outsider but is treated as a daughter, while the son-in-law is trusted as a son. At this point, there should be no distinction based on blood relations; both are considered children and parents of the family. The young couple should jointly respect their parents, without any sense of "you and me." Your words and actions will influence your descendants, and your future elderly life will be peaceful and comfortable.
The Child Star is Favorable
If the child star in the Ba Zi is a favorable element, it is best to get pregnant immediately after marriage, because the birth of a child can bring good luck to the family, making the couple more compatible and responsible. Of course, some young couples want a child but find it difficult to conceive. In such cases, if they are in a lucky period, it can help them get pregnant sooner, leading to a happy and harmonious family, with a sweet and affectionate marital relationship.
The Spouse Palace is the Official Star
The so-called spouse palace refers to the earthly branch of the day of birth. In Ba Zi theory, the earthly branch of the day of birth represents the spouse's palace, indicating the spouse's family background. The official star represents tradition and loyalty, and once a suitable partner is chosen, one will remain faithful for life.
In fact, a happy marriage relies on mutual trust and loyalty. A partner who remains faithful and unchanging, and who you also remain faithful to, is essential. Such a couple forms a whole, sharing both happiness and hardship together.
Unhappy Marriage in Ba Zi
The Marriage Palace is in ConflictThe marriage palace in the Ba Zi represents a person's marriage and spouse. The marriage palace is the earthly branch of the day pillar closest to the day master. If the marriage palace is in conflict, then the marriage is inevitably affected, like being constantly hit by external forces, making the marriage unstable. Therefore, the marriage palace in conflict is most prone to marital problems. The combinations of conflicting earthly branches include: Zi and Wu, Chou and Wei, Yin and Shen, Mao and You, Chen and Xu, Si and Hai. If the earthly branch of the birth month or the birth hour conflicts with the day branch, and there is no other branch to resolve the conflict, it is considered as the marriage palace in conflict. When encountering a major period where the earthly branch conflicts with the marriage palace, the marriage is also unstable. Additionally, if the Ba Zi composition is poor and the marriage palace has conflicts, the man's marriage is also troubled.
Too Many Secondary Wealth Elements in the Ba Zi
In a man's Ba Zi, the primary wealth element represents his wife, while the secondary wealth element represents mistresses. If a man's Ba Zi contains too many secondary wealth elements, he usually has many mistresses. If there are too many secondary wealth elements and no primary wealth element, the man often neglects his wife and doesn't consider her feelings. Men whose marriage palace is under the secondary wealth element are the same. If the Ba Zi has many food spirits and injury spirits along with secondary wealth elements, the man is likely to be lustful and lack self-control, resulting in an unstable marriage.
The Day Branch is Under the Robbery Wealth Element
Men born on the days of Bing Wu, Ding Si, Ren Zi, and Gui Hai have the robbery wealth element in their day branch. In a man's Ba Zi, the day branch (marriage palace) is equivalent to the place where his wife resides. If instead of his wife, a robbery wealth element appears in this position, it indicates that the man may severely harm his wife, or at least face divorce or long-term marital disharmony.
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