How to Determine if Bazi are Compatible?
Similar Bazi
If two people's Bazi contain many similar, mutually generating, or mutually harmonizing characters, even if there are some conflicting elements, such as when there is too much wood, it needs metal, when there is too much earth, it needs wood, when there is too much water, it needs earth, etc., they can still complement each other, and both can get what they need. If this is not the case, they may not even be able to get along as ordinary friends, let alone fall in love or spend a lifetime together.
Synchronized Offspring
In the Four Pillars prediction, the gender of the first child is observed. The gender of the first child in the Bazi of both the man and the woman must be consistent. In other words, both the man and the woman should either have children or not have children at all in order to become a couple. If one person has no children and the other has a destiny of having children or should have them in middle age, they must divorce before the middle age of that person, because the husband and wife must have synchronized offspring.
Shared Misfortune and Fortune
A woman who has been widowed and remarried cannot be compatible with a man who will live with his wife until old age. Similarly, a man of great wealth and status cannot marry a woman of poverty and degradation. Therefore, by looking at a woman's Bazi, we can see the level of her husband's wealth and status. When she looks for a partner, she unconsciously chooses someone whose wealth and status match her own Bazi. There is no doubt about this, and if it does not match, she cannot find a suitable partner. This is the fundamental reason why many young men and women fail to fall in love. Not only do the husband and wife share the same macro-level fortune and misfortune in life, but also their annual fortune and misfortune are the same. Therefore, one should be able to accurately determine the wife's or husband's situation by examining the husband's or wife's Bazi.
Same Earthly Branches
We know that the power of the three earthly branches meeting is the strongest, as they represent the energy of a single direction. "Those who speak the same language respond to each other, and those who share the same energy seek each other". Therefore, people born in the same direction of energy have the highest probability of forming a relationship. For example, the years of the Tiger, Rabbit, and Dragon form the East Wood energy, so the chances of the Tiger and Rabbit and Dragon combining are greater than others. The years of the Snake, Horse, and Sheep form the South Fire energy, so the chances of the Snake, Horse, and Sheep combining are greater than others. The years of the Monkey, Rooster, and Dog form the West Metal energy, so the chances of the Monkey, Rooster, and Dog combining are greater than others. The years of the Pig, Rat, and Ox form the North Water energy, so the chances of the Pig, Rat, and Ox combining are greater than others.
If two people's Bazi contain many similar, mutually generating, or mutually harmonizing characters, even if there are some conflicting elements, such as when there is too much wood, it needs metal, when there is too much earth, it needs wood, when there is too much water, it needs earth, etc., they can still complement each other, and both can get what they need. If this is not the case, they may not even be able to get along as ordinary friends, let alone fall in love or spend a lifetime together.
Synchronized Offspring
In the Four Pillars prediction, the gender of the first child is observed. The gender of the first child in the Bazi of both the man and the woman must be consistent. In other words, both the man and the woman should either have children or not have children at all in order to become a couple. If one person has no children and the other has a destiny of having children or should have them in middle age, they must divorce before the middle age of that person, because the husband and wife must have synchronized offspring.
Shared Misfortune and Fortune
A woman who has been widowed and remarried cannot be compatible with a man who will live with his wife until old age. Similarly, a man of great wealth and status cannot marry a woman of poverty and degradation. Therefore, by looking at a woman's Bazi, we can see the level of her husband's wealth and status. When she looks for a partner, she unconsciously chooses someone whose wealth and status match her own Bazi. There is no doubt about this, and if it does not match, she cannot find a suitable partner. This is the fundamental reason why many young men and women fail to fall in love. Not only do the husband and wife share the same macro-level fortune and misfortune in life, but also their annual fortune and misfortune are the same. Therefore, one should be able to accurately determine the wife's or husband's situation by examining the husband's or wife's Bazi.
Same Earthly Branches
We know that the power of the three earthly branches meeting is the strongest, as they represent the energy of a single direction. "Those who speak the same language respond to each other, and those who share the same energy seek each other". Therefore, people born in the same direction of energy have the highest probability of forming a relationship. For example, the years of the Tiger, Rabbit, and Dragon form the East Wood energy, so the chances of the Tiger and Rabbit and Dragon combining are greater than others. The years of the Snake, Horse, and Sheep form the South Fire energy, so the chances of the Snake, Horse, and Sheep combining are greater than others. The years of the Monkey, Rooster, and Dog form the West Metal energy, so the chances of the Monkey, Rooster, and Dog combining are greater than others. The years of the Pig, Rat, and Ox form the North Water energy, so the chances of the Pig, Rat, and Ox combining are greater than others.
Who Has Incompatible Bazi?
Excessive Auspicious Stars (Huo Hua)
When there are too many auspicious stars in the Bazi, it indicates an excessive flow of romantic energy. The method to identify these auspicious stars is based on the day stem: "If the day stem is Bing or Wu, and the earthly branch is Mao, then it is the auspicious star; if the day stem is Ji or Geng, and the earthly branch is Zi, it is the auspicious star; if the day stem is Xin or Ren, and the earthly branch is You, it is the auspicious star; if the day stem is Gui or Jia, and the earthly branch is Wu, it is the auspicious star." People with fewer auspicious stars tend to be attractive, have romantic relationships, and be full of sentimentality. Those with many auspicious stars, however, often experience emotional chaos, infidelity, and even extramarital affairs. They might also have issues with their partners, constantly wanting to argue with them.
Incompatible Birth Years
If the birth years of the husband and wife are incompatible, such as being in conflict or mutual harm, it can lead to major conflicts. If the birth years are compatible, the couple will generally get along well. Compatible birth years include: Rat and Ox, Tiger and Pig, Dragon and Chicken, Horse and Goat, Monkey and Snake, Rabbit and Dog. Additionally, there are three-year combinations: Monkey, Rat, and Dragon are compatible; Snake, Chicken, and Ox are compatible; Tiger, Horse, and Dog are compatible; Pig, Rabbit, and Goat are compatible. Incompatible birth years include: Rat and Horse, Dragon and Dog, Tiger and Monkey, Ox and Goat, Rabbit and Chicken, Snake and Pig. When there is a conflict, it usually leads to arguments over small matters, and after some time, there will be major conflicts between the couple.
Major Romantic Years
During years with major romantic energy, couples may experience significant quarrels, but once this romantic year passes, their relationship will return to its previous harmony. For example, 2011 was the Year of the Rabbit. People born in the years of the Tiger, Horse, and Dog were in a romantic year. Those born in these years should pay attention to their relationships during this time and avoid being unfaithful, otherwise it could lead to a major conflict in the marriage.
When there are too many auspicious stars in the Bazi, it indicates an excessive flow of romantic energy. The method to identify these auspicious stars is based on the day stem: "If the day stem is Bing or Wu, and the earthly branch is Mao, then it is the auspicious star; if the day stem is Ji or Geng, and the earthly branch is Zi, it is the auspicious star; if the day stem is Xin or Ren, and the earthly branch is You, it is the auspicious star; if the day stem is Gui or Jia, and the earthly branch is Wu, it is the auspicious star." People with fewer auspicious stars tend to be attractive, have romantic relationships, and be full of sentimentality. Those with many auspicious stars, however, often experience emotional chaos, infidelity, and even extramarital affairs. They might also have issues with their partners, constantly wanting to argue with them.
Incompatible Birth Years
If the birth years of the husband and wife are incompatible, such as being in conflict or mutual harm, it can lead to major conflicts. If the birth years are compatible, the couple will generally get along well. Compatible birth years include: Rat and Ox, Tiger and Pig, Dragon and Chicken, Horse and Goat, Monkey and Snake, Rabbit and Dog. Additionally, there are three-year combinations: Monkey, Rat, and Dragon are compatible; Snake, Chicken, and Ox are compatible; Tiger, Horse, and Dog are compatible; Pig, Rabbit, and Goat are compatible. Incompatible birth years include: Rat and Horse, Dragon and Dog, Tiger and Monkey, Ox and Goat, Rabbit and Chicken, Snake and Pig. When there is a conflict, it usually leads to arguments over small matters, and after some time, there will be major conflicts between the couple.
Major Romantic Years
During years with major romantic energy, couples may experience significant quarrels, but once this romantic year passes, their relationship will return to its previous harmony. For example, 2011 was the Year of the Rabbit. People born in the years of the Tiger, Horse, and Dog were in a romantic year. Those born in these years should pay attention to their relationships during this time and avoid being unfaithful, otherwise it could lead to a major conflict in the marriage.
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