As the saying goes, "It takes a hundred years to share a boat, and a thousand years to lie in the same bed." It is indeed difficult to become a couple, and even more so to be a happy one. Eight Characters Compatibility is not baseless; it has its own meaning and significance. Come and take a look at the Eight Characters Compatibility right away.
The situation of spouse and one's own happiness
Couples who live in harmony and enjoy a peaceful life until old age usually have balanced four pillars, with the spouse star as a useful element and well-supported. For men, a strong day pillar as a useful element, pure and strong wealth stars, strong body, and producing wealth through food or injury stars. For women, a day pillar as a useful element, pure and strong official stars, strong body, and strong officials.
Distance between spouse and oneself
Taking the day stem and branch as the axis, we can see the distance of the spouse star. The year stem and branch are far, the day stem and branch are near, while the month stem and branch, and the hour stem and branch are moderate. If there is a spouse star that is compatible with the day stem and branch, the distance may be shortened. If there is a spouse star that conflicts with the day stem and branch, it may increase the distance, for example, if the day and month stems and branches are spouse stars and conflict with each other, the distance may change from close to far.
Age difference between spouse and oneself
In general, those whose fate tends towards food or injury stars generating wealth, regardless of gender, will have a younger spouse, and the stronger the tendency, the larger the age gap. Those whose fate tends towards official and printing stars generating each other, regardless of gender, will have an older spouse, and the stronger the tendency, the larger the age gap. If neither tendency is too strong and they are close to balance, the age difference will be small.
The appearance, temper, and personality of the spouse
The day branch being Zi, Wu, Mao, or You indicates that the spouse is beautiful or capable. A day branch being Chen, Xu, Chou, or Wei suggests that the spouse has poor appearance, is simple, and sincere. A day branch being Yin, Shen, Si, or Hai indicates that the spouse has average appearance, talks a lot, and is smart and capable. For a female's day branch containing a wealth star as a favorable element, the husband is capable. For a male's day branch containing a wealth star, whether strong or weak, this is called the wife's palace, indicating a good wife. Another method to assess the appearance of the spouse is to consider the day branch along with the spouse star's stem and branch, and their five elements. Combined analysis is required: fire represents beauty, wood represents tallness, water represents flexibility, earth represents practicality, and metal represents stability.
Characteristics of the eight characters for men who control the marriage
Men are the ones who hold power, while women are the ones who obey. For a woman, the usual characteristics are that her day stem is weak, sitting on the official or killing stars; the day stem is weak, sitting on the day branch; the day stem is weak, and the official and killing stars are strong, with the day branch helping the body; the day stem is weak, and the wealth star is weak, which generates the official star. For a man, the usual characteristics are that his body is strong and he is wealthy, without food or injury stars generating wealth; the day stem is strong, and it overpowers the day branch. The day stem is strong, and the wealth star is weak, which generates the official star.
Characteristics of the eight characters for women who control the marriage
Women dominate, and husbands obey. For a woman, the usual characteristics are that her body is strong, and food or injury stars appear openly; the day branch is weak, and the day stem gives birth to the day branch. The day branch is strong, and the official star is weak, which generates the print star. For a man, the usual characteristics are that his body is weak, and the wealth star is strong, with multiple combinations in the branches; the body is weak, and the day branch contains the wealth star; the body is weak, the wealth star is strong, and the day branch contains food or injury stars, etc.
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