Does the female's Shangguan period harm herself or her husband?
The female's Shangguan period can affect both the husband and oneself, with the core factor being the balance and transformation within the birth chart. When there is no transformation, the impact on marriage and one's own state becomes more pronounced.In the Chinese astrological system, Shangguan has a restraining relationship with the husband star (Guanxing). During the Shangguan period, this restraining force is amplified. Impact on the husband: it may lead to increased communication conflicts in the couple's relationship, or the husband may face fluctuations in his career or health. The essence lies in the critical and rebellious nature of Shangguan, which contradicts the need for tolerance and stability in marriage.
Impact on oneself: emotions are prone to irritability and anxiety, actions may be impulsive and reckless, and words may cause interpersonal disputes. There may also be unexpected injuries or setbacks in one's career. If the Shangguan element is overly strong, one might fall into confusion due to excessive self-consumption. From practical observations, women whose charts have the influence of Yinxing or Caixing can significantly reduce the damage, and even use the talent from the Shangguan period to break through bottlenecks.
Why do women fear the Shangguan period?
The reason why women fear the Shangguan period is that it easily disrupts the balance of marriage and life, and the negative effects mainly concentrate in areas that women value most, such as relationships and interpersonal interactions. Without transformation, these challenges become more prominent.Direct impact on the core of marriage: In the female's chart, the husband star is represented by Guanxing, and Shangguan specifically restrains Guanxing. Going through the Shangguan period is like a "test period" for marriage. At this time, the feeling of being critical toward the partner is intensified, leading to quarrels due to differences in views or unwillingness to compromise, and in severe cases, it may result in the breakdown of the relationship. This is the most feared aspect.
Personality and interpersonal relationships may encounter problems: The Shangguan period may trigger rebellious and straightforward traits, leading to careless speech and actions that may unintentionally offend others, increasing interpersonal conflicts. At the same time, emotional fluctuations are significant, and the ability to withstand pressure decreases, making one prone to internal exhaustion, which affects the overall quality of life.
Amplification effect of traditional beliefs: In traditional Chinese astrology, the importance of marriage to women is overemphasized, and the concept of "Shangguan harming the husband" is continuously spread, further deepening the belief that "women fear the Shangguan period." However, this is not absolute; the key still lies in whether the birth chart is balanced.
Related Q&A
Q: How can one reduce the impact on marriage during the Shangguan period?
A: The key is to adjust communication methods, reduce criticism of the partner, and show more tolerance for differences. If the chart has Caixing, focus more on career or shared goals, and use positive actions to transform the energy of Shangguan. If there is Yinxing, one can calm emotions through learning and reading, maintaining rationality.
Q: Will there be a major impact if one's birth chart has weak Shangguan but goes through the Shangguan period?
A: The impact will be relatively mild. At this time, the Shangguan period may instead stimulate one's talents, allowing breakthroughs in fields such as creativity and expression. As long as one controls emotions and avoids impulsive decisions, it is likely to pass smoothly without excessive worry.
