Do Shangguan Women Need to Stay Away from Their Parents' Family?
Shangguan women do not necessarily need to stay away from their parents' family. The key lies in the balance and compatibility of the natal chart and family relationships. Staying away is a choice to "reduce conflicts," not an absolute requirement. When there is proper regulation in the chart, it may be more smooth to maintain close ties with the parents' family.Shangguan represents independence and rebelliousness. If the natal chart has an overabundance of shangguan without regulation, it can lead to conflicts with the traditional values and authority of the parents' family, forming a "shangguan sees official" configuration, which causes family disharmony.
In such cases, maintaining appropriate physical or psychological distance can reduce conflicts and make both sides feel more comfortable. If the chart has an印 (yin) star to moderate or a财 (cai) star to transform, the sharpness of shangguan is subdued, and if the woman is understanding and communicates well, she can get support by staying close to her parents' family.
Some shangguan women naturally tend to leave their hometown due to certain astrological features, such as the day stem being a horse star or the month and day stems clashing with the year stem. This is a result of the fortune, not a mandatory requirement to stay away from their parents' family.
Are Shangguan Women's Later Years Very Pitiful?
The statement "shangguan women have a pitiful old age" is one-sided. Whether the later years are good or bad depends mainly on the balance and regulation of the natal chart, as well as postnatal efforts. Shangguan women are more likely to experience "wisdom and wealth" or "peaceful and comfortable" later years, rather than inevitably being pitiful.Three key factors influence the later years of shangguan women: First, whether the shangguan is regulated. If the natal chart or major luck period includes an yin star, it can subdue the restless nature, leading to a stable life and reputation in old age. If there is a cai star, it can transform the energy of shangguan into wealth, resulting in better economic conditions.
Second, the configuration of the time pillar (representing later years). If the time pillar contains a shi Shen (food god) or zheng yin (right yin), it indicates good relationship with descendants and a rich spiritual life. If it contains bi jie (companion) or qisha (seven kill), some caution is needed, but it does not necessarily mean a difficult life.
Third, postnatal efforts. Shangguan women are usually intelligent and open-minded. In their later years, they can develop hobbies to enrich their spiritual world. If they actively maintain family relationships and pay attention to health, they can more easily enjoy a peaceful retirement.
Only when shangguan is overly strong without regulation, and the later years have unfavorable luck, and self-regulation is lacking, can loneliness and stubbornness occur. But this is not the general outcome for shangguan women.
Related Questions
Q: Shangguan women often have conflicts with their parents' family. Should they stay away or try to mend the relationship?
A: Prioritize trying to mend the relationship through communication and reaching an understanding. If the conflict persists and affects mental and physical health, it is advisable to maintain an appropriate distance first, and rebuild the connection once both sides are calmer. There is no need to cut off completely.
Q: Can shangguan women who have shangguan as a taboo star change their fortune through postnatal efforts?
A: Yes. After the age of 50, if they enter a yin period, their fortune will naturally improve. Individually, they can regulate their temperament through self-cultivation, develop hobbies, and strengthen communication with their children, thus actively creating a happy later life.
