In the study of fate, the "Qisha" (Seven Killer) female destiny is often considered to have many ups and downs in love. This article will delve into the emotional and career challenges of a person with a Qisha female destiny, providing professional astrological analysis and life advice to help her find balance between true love and career.
Destiny Analysis
Dear Teacher Liu, hello: I have been following your articles for one year now, and whenever I have time, I read them, gaining much benefit. I am a woman, born on the lunar calendar November 28, 1986, at the hour of Chen. My family is ordinary, and now I am an older unmarried woman. I am lazy in nature, and my parents are pressuring me to get married. I have had multiple failed dating experiences. After these failures, I have some resistance, but I have already come to terms with it. My career is not going well, and I often face obstacles from others; my boss does not value me, and I face great life pressure, easily becoming irritable. Please, Teacher, take a look at my marriage prospects and career. When will I get married? In my eight characters, there is a "Zi Wei Xiang Chuan" (subtle conflict between Zi and Wei). Does this mean I won't have a marriage? If I do, can it be stable later? How should I prevent troublemakers in my career? Is it suitable for me to develop far away? What about my future financial situation?
Qisha Women in Destiny Studies
For women, the husband star in the destiny chart is mainly represented by the official and killer stars. The regular official represents the husband, while the seven killer represents a lover. If the eight characters lack a regular official, the seven killer may represent the husband. A strong seven killer indicates many bad romances, emotional turbulence, and difficulty in maintaining stability. In your eight characters, the water of Zi is the seven killer star, which means your marriage cannot be realized, and there are bad romances. Due to the subtle conflict between Zi and Wei, as well as the wood of Yin draining the water of Zi, the combination of drainage and suppression leads to relationships where the partners are strong and have big tempers. Once they gain power, you cannot control them, and in your relationship, your stubbornness and recklessness cause you to eventually give up, leading to continuous poor relationships.
Major Periods and Love
Your previous major period was Wu Xu (ages 19-29), and now it is Ding Yu (ages 29-39). These two major periods haven't brought much change, basically reflecting the situation described earlier. You can find a man who meets your standards and whom you admire, but once you find him, it's difficult to keep him, unless your major period is moving towards metal and water. However, based on your major periods, you are moving through fire and metal. Metal is supposed to generate water, but it is suppressed by fire, so it brings no help to you. Of course, the opportunity for a relationship will increase, but the fundamental issues will remain unsolved! This makes your love life difficult to achieve your desires. Moreover, you were born on a day that is "Yin Cha Yang Luo" (a day with conflicting energies), so all the people you fall in love with are those you shouldn't be falling for.
Career and Wealth
In terms of career and wealth, you are relatively ordinary because your destiny is in a state of weak wealth stars. The Geng metal has no root, and there is also Bing fire (a rival star) nearby. The rival star attacks the wealth star, which hinders money from coming to you and reflects as difficulties in earning money and an unsatisfactory financial situation. The regular wealth star is exposed and attacked by the rival star, indicating a sign of losing money, thus making it difficult to accumulate wealth and resulting in high expenses. The regular wealth star also represents salary income. Once it is attacked, your salary income is damaged. To earn more money, relying solely on salary is very difficult. Furthermore, the regular wealth star is far from you and is attacked by the rival star, making it even harder to obtain wealth. At the same time, the subtle conflict between Zi and Wei in the earthly branches causes the water of Zi to drain, preventing your career development from taking off and showing no good progress. This is your current situation, and such circumstances can lead to anxiety.
Life Advice
The above has already explained the situation regarding love clearly. Finally, I want to remind you of a few things. All relationships will change because people's hearts change, but you do not change. This is the impact of the "Zi Wei Xiang Chuan," which marks the beginning of your suffering. You are unwilling to compromise, and because of this, you have remained single until now. Because you refuse to compromise, you choose the people you like, but in the end, they don't last. Therefore, you need to reflect on where the problem really lies. Actually, the issue has already been explained above. In this case, you should change your thinking and set a standard. Consider men who are solid, hardworking, and kind. Don't be blinded by superficial appearances; instead, focus more on their inner qualities.
Through an in-depth analysis of the Qisha female destiny, we understand that the ups and downs in love and career are not unsolvable. By lowering expectations, focusing on inner qualities, continuously learning, and improving oneself, Qisha female destiny individuals can also find their own happiness and success in love and career. Remember, sincerity and effort are the keys to happiness.
